Monday, December 17, 2012

You said :)

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You said you'll walk every path of our life,looking in my eye :)
You said you'll always be there for me, like my sky.

   Together our life has seen many sun's and shades,
   And you promised to be with me, whenever I feel pale. :)

  When you were mine ,there were no fears :)
  And I know you will never let me make my relation with tears :)

  Your love thought me to live being selfless :)
  And I never knew when you became my best strength and my worst weakness :)

 To share all my life,my heart has always wished for someone of my own :)
 And see fate has found me your shoulder were I can lay my head down :)

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Seasons of life

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Some dreams ,some fears ,some regrets and some tears.
Moving ahead in this sweet and bitter life ,
With a hint of spice and some salt,
There are days when you just want everything to halt.
Sometimes there are bright & warm sunny days,
And sometimes there are cold & gloomy winds to face.
To our surprise suddenly sometime there is a rain of love,
But when it ends all we are left doing is reprove.
And certainly again there comes the cold,
And your life starts to take another fold.
With teary eyes,loneliness and regrets,why we forget the simple told
That there is a big bright smile after every pain,
And after every Autumn there are cheerful lovely rains :) :)  

Saturday, October 27, 2012

This is how he should be ;)

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The one with that breath taking smile,
Yes, the one for whom I can walk any number of miles.

The one whose goodness will touch my soul,
The one with the personality which I can adore.:) 

The one for whom ill give away my last name,
Should be the one who knows that love is not a game.

Yes he should be the one with a golden heart,
Whose kindness will make him from crowd,apart.

I've always wished for someone who leads his life with some principle,
Yes the one with the above qualities can fit into my "perfect guy example".

Lastly he should be some one on whom I can proudly proud,
Yes he will be my dream guy on white horse ,without any doubt :) :)
                                                          
                                                         

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

The day you met :) :)


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To me you were something like a dream come true :)
You walked in my life silently and you stayed too :)
Your feeling was like wearing a warm hoodie ,
In cold,breathe taking december winds of my life.
I fell for you the moment, your goodness touched my soul.
And now i can proudly say that,
Yes you are the one,the only one I was longing for.
You made your place in my life,with out my permission 
And now I came to know why it is said,
that love need no reasons :)
I can sum up this by saying that 
I was a flowing river ,with no boundries 
And then the day when you said, -You do : )
I found my shore in you :) :)

 

Friday, September 28, 2012

A musing :)

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Moving the darkness like kohl ,from the pillows of snowy white mountains a sun raised its head and saw that on the hills of someones heart there is a season of  love.

On the stems of the memories there are innumerable flowers of past which has started giving out its mesmerising fragrance.

Some unsaid and unheard wish which is still partly in sleep has started rubbing its eyes and it sees that flowing like a river, life is new in its every wave.

Remembering that some one once said that on the lap of life there is never ending love and there is also a long wait for someone too.


And it waves off by the silent feeling that on barren land of someones heart soon there is gonna be a rain of love. :) :)  







Wednesday, September 26, 2012

SOME REGRETS.........


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We met ,we fell for each other and we fall apart too.You became my dream and that dream which I saw with open eyes. But now all we have is a miles of space in between us.Still there are some unknown threads which are tying me to you ,still I see the dreams of both you & me to be together. I don't know how should I tell you about those feelings which are still alive some where in my heart,but please don't get me wrong,for your sake I've tried and I've tried hard to completely let you free.But still there is something which binds you and me.May be my eyes can explain what my heart feels because I am unable to find words to explain it . I don't know was it your talks ,your smile or your first touch which made me fall for you or it all happened after you left -please don't ask me I have no idea about it. I know that you tried and tried your best but may be it was my insecurities which didn't let me speak my heart and I still regret that why I didn't said what I felt for you - Why I didn't said yes,even i feel the same for you.

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

VACUITY

Sad Animated Full Moon (image courtesy -google)
The shine of moon is slowly fading
The twinkle of stars is vanishing too
Everything seems to be so dark and empty
And my love is asking your ego for some pity
My life has turned its face on me
And I am still lost somewhere in midst of your sea
The silence which I am hearing is loudest of all
I still remember you swore to handle me when I fall
How should I kill memories of every second I spend without you?
Or how should these few lines explain my unbearable spasm to you?
For your single answer I have longed for my whole life
But I wonder how my tears wouldn't even give you a strike
This night is darkest and longest of all I've ever seen
Still I hope you to be here, as you promised,you would have been

Friday, September 14, 2012

MEMORIES :) :)

People say childhoods are always special and yes they always are ,most of us have awesome childhood filled with our adorable sweet innocence and naughtiness. I have to say though I had born in a middle class family ,my parents have brought me up like a princess ,although i never got what i wanted but they always gave me what i needed and I never remember the day when I had long for something I needed. though my mom have been a strict mom but  I have always been a mama's girl (Still I am :P) , I still don't have a courage to go beyond her words (Not because of fear but due to respect , I respect her to the core ) ,I know how how much she has went through to bring me up. So where were we ? ya childhood and you know what guys, I just love children ,their smile can make my whole day ,even it may be a random kid ,I can start playing with them ,i just love kids - so was just asking my mom about my childhood yesterday - and she started with "please don't remind me of that" and I was like ?? ( I gave her an exclamatory look ) and said areeeeee c'mon  tell me na maa and she told me you were the naughtiest child I've ever seen in my whole life ,you showed me stars in day time and I was like LOL. I  told "maa ab bachee toh aise hi hote hai" (maa kids are like that only )and finally I felt I was normal as other humans ;) pheeewww what a relief to hear that :D :D and suddenly she reminded me of diwali and saree wala incident and I was laughing out loud remembering that ,well at that time I was around 10 years old and I remembered that incident quite well , It was diwali time, No! actually one day before diwali and as usually i hadn't went to school ,I was damn lazy to go to school. Once in a week(during working days -sundays not included)  I always had a bahana (excuse) to how to avoid school, indeed now I can write the 2 volumes book on those bahana's I made during that time. I never liked to go to school although my mom was strict but on this part she was not that much interested. Whether I go to school or not but she made sure that my studies are not getting suffered. My mom always made me study on my holidays for at least 5 hours per day (now thats what we call as torture but anything is legit to get a holiday -so mom's conditions accepted )and my grades were quite good always ;) and so my parents were happy and never forced me to go school when I didn't wanted. But ya only one holiday was allowed in a week after that none of my tantrums worked :P. My teachers always use to get furious when I didn't went to school , but as i was good in studies they just used to scold me for this and leave me ,they even didn't took that seriously :P But  I always use to tell my friends (very proudly) dekha miss mujhe kitna pyaar karti hai ,jab mein nai aati to miss mujhe kitna daant ti  hai  kyunki woh mujhe bauaht pasand karti hai and tereko toh kabhi puchti bhi nai :P :D(miss scolds me because she loves me and misses me alot but she don't even ask about you :P :P) One of my friend rupal always used to get angry red all because my such dialogues :P :P So it was one day before diwali ,my mom had went to temple and as usually I was standing in front of  TV and was dancing like a retard ( I still can't dance :P ) ,I even remember the song it was oh oh jane jaana dundhe tujhe diwana :P

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I had a hard core crush over salman during my childhood I always love watching him and I love his songs too although now it has passed on to ranbir <3 :P :P So the main door was locked as I always use to run out of home and then finding me in a building of 108 houses  was a big deal  for my mom after that,so she always locked the main door and go but people can contact me from the kitchen window ,So i was busy in my dancing business and there is a knock at my window ,I went to my kitchen it was our building sweeper aunty - She smiled at me but i didn't smiled -I stared at her :O(actually as per my mom during those days i never used to smile except for posing in front of camera otherwise I always used to stare people :P :P now please don't ask me why - I have no idea :P ) I asked her yenna venno? (what do you want ?) She told you remember your mom promised to give me a saaree yesterday evening as a diwali gift ? I told yes ,so ? please tell your mom to give me now ,as I will not come tommorow and i don't have anything to wear .... I got really emotional by her words ,I was an emotional fool during my childhood (actually still I am ) As mom was not at home ,so i decided to give her the saaree -I told her to wait there and went to the wardrobe and I took out a really good saare -, I thought she will like it and gave her :P she said  thankyou and went of happily - so- I happy ,she happy ,which indeed made me think will make my mom happy too and i was damn excited to say mom about this incident and thought that mom would be glad because i did such good work :P :P  I was eagerly waiting for her ,i was dancing all over my home like i have went nutz -so mom came - as soon as she opened the door i ran to her screaming Mommmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and got wrapped around her (My excitement levels were always at their peak ,when ever i did something different ) My mom was surprised by seeing me so excited she asked babuu (now that's my pet name - no body should laugh on it :P ) what have you done today haan? ( she asked mischeviously) I narrated the whole incident proudly :P to her .After hearing the whole thing she was shocked  and ran to the wardrobe opened it and asked which saaree did you gave to her ? ? (shockingly ) i told mama that blue wali saari which you wored on chachu's (uncle) wedding :P :P and she told "u mad girl (in gujju ufcourse ) that was my fav saaree and I had wored that only twice" and suddenly my maa turned into maa durga with in a fraction of seconds the only diffrence was she had belen in her hand instead of trishul and  I had too run out of the home before she could catch me :P :P i went to gate running then turned and gave her a look of -"catch me if you can"  and  again started running :P :P

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 yesterday was laughing out loud remembering this but that day the same incident was like my last day on this earth :P :P :D

Friday, August 24, 2012

FEELING OF FIRST LOVE :) :)

First love is always an unforgettable part of your life - It will always be inseparable form heart -The memories it leaves is something from which you can never move on  even when have moved on from your relationship . Its that fragrance which clings to you till your life time . Its something which you can't get it off even if you want too. I mean all the first things in life are really special ,like first job ,first rains etc but first love is some thing which is unexplainable :) It would be the most beautiful part of anybody's life :)


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 The first feeling of being with someone is eternal
 That first feeling of security ,when walking down the streets in winter night with him
 That feeling when his one good morning text can make your whole day
 That moment when the front seat of his car is just reserved for you
 That feeling when he suddenly holds your hand while crossing road,and you just want that moment to pause there
 That feeling when he is not afraid to stand by you through your worse
 That feeling when he assures you that he will be with you till your life
 That cute feeling when sometimes he carries your shopping bags getting over his ego
 That feeling when he gets possessive when some tries to flirt with you
 That feeling of wearing his jacket
 That feeling of being with a person who don't care about how you look
 That moment when he sings just for you 
 That feeling when he says don't worry, No matter what I am always there for you 
 That feeling of getting drenched in rain with him
 That feeling when you know nothing can go wrong as long as he is with you 
 That feeling of changing for him and that cute moment when he tries to change for you
 And That most pure feeling of having somebody ,whom nobody can share.
 He is just and just for you :) :)

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

An encounter with early morning rains :)

It was around early -early morning 6 ,and I was totally lost in my sweet dreams of  R.K   A.K.A  Ranbir kapoor :P  my well known crush :D :D - Well I am not a morning person at all. I can hardly and very badly wake up at 8am. After 18 years of hard core efforts by my mom ,now she has also realized that its just a waste of time to expect me to wake up early in the morning but to my knowledge Isn't 8 am early too and I can say that because I know some retards who wake up at 11 and 12 so shouldn't my mom  be proud of me that her always obedient and sincere daughter (yeah that's me :D )atleast tries to wake up at eight although that 8 mostly becomes 8:30 to quarter to nine but atleast I try :P Anyways we cannot explain or argue with mom. I hope she realizes my worth someday :P :D
So lets come back to the topic , it was around 6 am , I encountered the most beautiful moment of my life ,as you already know i was lost in the dreams of my RK and in my dream I was just about to fall and RK was just about to catch me but in meanwhile Some  rain droplets were escaping from my window and were directly landing on my face and It woke me up and the dream was over Sob* Sob* but that day I woke up without alarm clock but with the sound of rain and smell of mud was all over my home - believe me it was an divine experience-It was the most beautiful morning ever and I finally realized why mom says wake up early in the morning ,who knows it may give you some lifetime memories to cherish and yes it was certainly magical. I grabbed my hoodie ,it was quite cold and any how I love to wear hoodies ,so no matter what I just need a reason to wear them as in chennai's heat you get very less moments where you can wear your hoodies and sweaters ,so whenever I get that chance I grab it :D and just sat beside my window , and streched my arms outside ,raindrops were dancing in my palms ,it was just a site to cherish - I love rains but it was the first time when i am experiencing morning rains ,it was really a feel good experience just made a cup of hot chocolate and again sat beside the window , this was the time for just myself - only self thoughts -remembering all good goody moments with friends and family and smiling like an idiot.Thinking if life can just pause here.


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This is the season of love as some people say and it happened to be the same with me ,even i falled in love ,No no don't get me wrong ,Yes i falled in love but with nature :D  Just thinking all the sweet thoughts with those naughty little rain droplets still falling on my face and other dancing on the earth - this experience was amusing , and its proved even nature can give you sweetest lifelong memories. It  was almost seven and  I was still beside my window and was writing this whole experience in my dairy to my surprise I was so lucky that there was sunrise along with rain -Warm sunrays entering directly in my home make my home more bright and my mood too :D :D I don't know it may sound funny and some people may even go whats so new in this but for me it was the most awesome experience and so penned down each and every moment to preserve and cherish it for a life time.

Friday, August 10, 2012

I think its gonna be a never ending wait

Waiting for some one is not easy and its gonna be more worst  when you know that your wait can take your lifetime. Yet you choose to wait ,why ? because for you that person is more worthy than your lifetime wait.
You know that those beautiful memories which you lived together is enough for your whole life to keep your doors open for that person . Although its really painful because ,you can't even tell that person that your wait for him is really taking your life. You can't even explain him the spasm ,you go through when he is not around. And you do all this for his dreams ,because you know its selfish to make him sacrifice his dreams and even harder when you know what his dreams mean to him. You don't want become a hurdle between him and his achievements.
But you also know that this is taking him away from you and you know at a certain point, its gonna affect your relationship badly but still your love for that person makes you stay lip sealed . Even your faith in him starts slowly fading but those memories ,those promises will not let you tear apart that soon .
But at some point of time you will also think , if that person loves you so much,
Why don't he understand the paroxysm which you are going through?
Why can't he envisage that his dreams are slowly breaking you from inside ?
Why don't he realize, what worst you are enduring without him ?
Why he is too stubborn to look beyond his dreams ?
Why don't he visualize ,what's being there on your side ?
For you ,he his your everything but,
Why you are still unaware about what's your place in his life ?
You know if you say ,he will leave everything and comeback to you ,but ,
Why can't he realize all these without saying ?
Why you are supposed to say and explain him everything ?
Why can't he understand your silence ?
And some times it makes you think ,
Will he'll ever be able to understand you beyond your words ?

Today its again raining outside...
All i can wish now is, you to be by my side. 

This season used to be so beautiful with you ...

All now it reminds me is only of the pain ,which i went through.

You promised me that you'll make every path of my life worthwhile ...

But I never knew ,along with you ,you will even take away my smile. 

I know that you are never unfaithful to me ...

But in between your other commitments you lost "us" from you & me.

Still I can feel your essence in this aroma of rain ....

But it makes me sometimes think that, waiting for you is really nothing but vain?




Monday, August 6, 2012

Thanks for coming in my life :) :)

So, I really dont know what to write  about friendship ,because i came to know what friendship means from some extraordinary species. Before meeting them my life use to revolve around me and my family. Till my high school i only had one best  friend , an she was so helpful in every aspect of my life that i never felt ill be needing some one else  because i believe in a saying have one good friend rather than 1000 fake friends ,so thats it -she was all ,she knewed all my secrets ,i used to share everything with her -thats it life was really cool - i never felt i must be having a gang of friends  or something -all though there were other class mates too but never got close with anyone -I am kinda reserved person , i need my own time ,my own space to get familiar ,i can't get that easily involved ,i love to make friends but need my own time to get mix with them. and i even hate back bitching people too ,so really choosy about making friends So that was all but really friends are the most important part of life learnt when "she" my best friend got married and settled out of town ,now that was the worst part.although no one can fill her space in my life, but it was the time to create space for some other people too - It was the time to get the college admissions- -haha- official place to make friends and hangout -was so damn excited-new place and new friends  -but in my life nothing goes as planned - was just about to get my admission forms  ,there comes a job offer -and it was so good that i was convinced that i have to do  this job. So college admission form became trash and went into a dust bin -And here  in job atmosphere everybody so involved in their own work that they  have no time even to speak to some one else so no frnzz here too but now have some really good colleagues here -the only best part here in this job was facebook - yeah when i joined here i never knew facebook existed also ,but slowly and steadily got addicted to it,all though people say fb frnzz are not real ones and wont be able to help you in your problems, they are fake and etc stuff - but for me the whole scenario was different - i really got good friends here -its almost been two years and they are still the best part of my life - they are always there for me when i need - to solve my problems , to make me smile at my worst days ,talking with them can make my day ,they have really became best of my frnzzz , i used to be so upto me but they thot me some really wonderful lessons of my life ,they accepted me the way i am -  today really wanna dedicate this poem to all of my friends who on otherside have became a part of my life .....i know this is not that good but can't find more words to write down -
 You people came in my life without any reasons
And I know ,you all are gonna be with me forever in all the seasons 

No matter how much i feel low or bad 
You are always there to turn my mood happy form sad    

I know with my stupid talks sometimes i may bore you to the core 
Still I know You will always be there by my side and that's what i adore 

you can always make my day more bright 
And  I never know when you all became such inseparable part of my life :)


From unknown to friends ,from friends to best friends ,from best friends to family were our evolution trends ,
I don't know were life will take us ,but i am sure even if we met again after a long break ,we know we will always be the best of friends :) :)



Monday, July 23, 2012

HIS LETTER OF REGRET :(


All he left behind was a letter and a life full of regrets :( 




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Today I am realizing why without saying anything  you ,silently left ……
I am sorry but, I never wanted to be your life’s worst regret

I don’t know when the  journey of “you and me” turned to “we”, but ,It happened for all good,
And I don’t know how passing time made me that rude

I lived a beautiful time of my life along with you
But today I realized that I don’t deserve to be your beau

I have always hurted you by my words and behaviour
And you expected that all life ill be your saviour


Today I regret for all the tears I gave
And for all the broken promises which once I made

I don’t know how I gave you so much pain
And made your eyes all night rain

I realized all this things only when you left
All now I can do is a life long regret

I don’t know if ever again paths of our life will cross or not
But the only thing I wanna say you is that I love you alot

If fate lead us to meet somewhere in the road of life ,this is  just I  wanna say you
Please come back to me ,I promise that ill change for you

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

THOSE DAYS ...........

Today sitting near the window,I think how times have changed .........
It was the same rainy season ,I remember how you used to come around with a cup of coffee
you always knew this season make me feel low , but u also knew how to bring a smile on my face :)
Today remembering those days

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Those days when it was your guitar and my lyrics

Those days when there were my sudden mood swings ,but you always used to stand by me

Those times when I used to feel low ,and your those little efforts to make me smile

Those times when the poetry was yours and words in it  were mine

Those time when your happiness used to be the reason of my smile 

Those days when tears were mine and the tissue to wipe them away was yours

Those days when our relationship was like shoes and laces ,without each other ,we were incomplete

Those days when we we used to live for each other

Those days used to be so special ,still tears are mine and memories are yours,the only diffrence is you are not here with the tissue to wipe them away :'(

Still i am thinking of those days ........sitting near the same window ,there are rains, there is coffee but the only thing missing is you :(

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

A Must Must Must Read Story :- (Its an Important thing to Learn)


Dear All,

THIS MESSAGE SHOULD BE AN EYE OPENER TO ALL OF US......


Subject: Letter written by a wife after her husband's death in an accident
This is a practical advice by someone who has unfortunately experienced this. Must read.


LETTER WRITTEN BY A WIFE AFTER HER HUSBAND'S DEATH IN AN ACCIDENT

"Few things I learnt after my husband's death:-

We always believe we will live forever. Bad things always happen to others.

Only when things hit us bang on your head you realise... Life is so unpredictable....

My husband was an IT guy.all techie.And I am a chartered accountant.Awesome combination you may think.

Techie guy so everything is on his laptop.his to do list. his e-bill and his bank statements in his email. . He even maintained a folder which said IMPWDS.wherein he stored all login id and passwords for all his online accounts.And even his laptop had a password. Techie guy so all the passwords were alpha-numeric with a special character not an easy one to crack.Office policy said passwords needed to be changed every 30 days.So every time I accessed his laptop I would realise it's a new password again. I would simply opt for asking him 'What's the latest password' instead of taking the strain to memorise it.

You may think me being a Chartered Accountant would means everything is documented and filed properly. Alas many of my chartered accountant friends would agree that the precision we follow with our office documents and papers do not flow in to day to day home life. At office you have be epitome of Reliability / Competent / Diligent etc but. at home front there is always a tomorrow.

One fine morning my hubby expired in a bike accident on his way home from office.. He was just 33.His laptop with all his data crashed.everything on his hard disk wiped off.No folder of IMPWDS to refer back to.His mobile with all the numbers on it was smashed.But that was just the beginning. I realised I had lot to learn.

9 years married to one of the best human beings.with no kids.just the two of us to fall back on..but now I stood all alone and lost.

Being chartered accountant helped in more ways than one but it was not enough. I needed help.His saving bank accounts, his salary bank accounts had no nominee.On his insurance his mom was the nominee and it was almost 2 years back she had expired. but this was just a start.. I didn't know the password to his email account where all his e-bill came.I didn't know which expenses he paid by standing instructions.

His office front too was not easy. His department had changed recently.I didn't know his reporting boss name to start with.when had he last claimed his shift allowance.his mobile reimbursement.

The house we bought with all the excitement.on a loan.thought with our joint salary we could afford the EMI.when the home loans guys suggested insurance on the loan.we decided the instead of paying the premium the difference in the EMI on account of the insurance could be used pay towards prepayment of the loan and get the tenure down.We never thought what we would do if we have to live on a single salary.So now there was huge EMI to look into .

I realised I was in for a long haul.

Road accident case. so everywhere I needed a Death certificate, FIR report, Post Mortem report. For everything there were forms running into pages.indemnity bonds.notary.surety to stand up for you.No objections certificates from your co-heirs..

I learnt other than your house, your land . your car, your bike are also your property... So what if you are the joint owner of the flat.you don't become the owner just because your hubby is no more. So what if your hubby expired in the bike accident.and you are the nominee but if the bike is in a repairable condition .you have to get the bike transferred in your name to claim the insurance.And that was again not easy. the bike or car cannot be transferred in your name without going through a set of legal documents. Getting a Succession Certificate is another battle all together.

Then came the time you realise now you have to start changing all the bills, assets in your name.Your gas connection, electricity meter, your own house, your car, your investments and all sundries. And then change all the nominations where your own investments are concerned.And again a start of a new set of paperwork.

To say I was shaken.my whole life had just turned upside down was an understatement.You realise you don't have time to morn and grieve for the person with whom you spend the best years of your life. because you are busy sorting all the paper work.

I realised then how much I took life for granted.I thought being a chartered accountant I am undergoing so many difficulties.what would have happened to someone who was house maker who wouldn't understand this legal hotchpotch.

A sweet friend then told me dear this was not an end.you have no kids.your assets will be for all who stand to claim.after my hubby's sudden death.I realised it was time I took life more seriously. I now needed to make a Will. I would have laughed if a few months back if he had asked me to make one.But now life had taken a twist.

Lessons learnt this hard way were meant to be shared.After all why should the people whom we love the most suffer after we are no more.Sorting some paperwork before we go will at least ease some of their grief.

1. Check all your nominations...
It's a usual practice to put a name (i.e in the first place if you have mentioned it) and royally forget about it. Most of us have named our parent as a nominee for investments, bank accounts opened before marriage. We have not changed the same even years after they are no longer there with us. Even your salary account usually has no nomination.. Kindly check all your Nominations.
- Bank Accounts
- Fixed Deposits, NSC
- Bank Lockers
- Demat Accounts
- Insurance (Life, Bike or Car or Property)
- Investments
- PF & Pension Forms

2. Passwords..
We have passwords for practically everything. Email accounts, Bank accounts, even for the laptop you use. What happens when your next in kin cannot access any of these simply because they do not know your password... Put it down on a paper.

3. Investments.
Every year for tax purpose we do investments. Do we maintain a excel sheet about it. If so is it on the same laptop of which the password you had not shared. Where are those physical investments hard copy.

4. Will.
Make a Will. I know you will smile even I would.had I not gone through all what I did.It would have made my life lot easier.a lot less paperwork.I wouldn't had to provide an indemnity bond, get it notarised, ask surety to stand up, no objections certificates from others...

5. Liabilities.
When you take a loan say for your house or car.Check out on all the what ifs.what if I am not there tomorrow.what if I loose my job.Will the EMI still be within my range.If not get an insurance on the loan.The people left behind will not have to worry on something as basic as their own house.

My battles have just begun...But let us at least try and make few changes so that our loved ones would not suffer after we go.We do not know what will happen in the future.But as the Scout motto goes: “Be prepared

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Some useful tips to waste your time in office :D

If you find it very boring in the office, here are some tips for u!!!!!!!!!

1. Form a detective agency to find out who is quitting next.
2. Make blank calls to your Boss.
3. Send mails from lotus notes (outlook)to your internet mail (and immediately get to the internet and see who reaches first, you or your mail?) and read them there, andnote down the time they take to reach there. Then do vice versa............. !!
4. Rearrange the furniture, i.e. flick someone else's chair just to irritate him/her.
5. Count your fingers (and toes if you still get bored).
6. Watch other people changing their facial ex-pressions while working and try changing your ex-pressions also.
7. Try to ask everyone or stretch status meetingsas longer as possible,
just by asking silly doubts. (IMPORTANT)
8. Make faces at strangers in office.
9. Have a three and half hour lunch; it's a big social occasion.
10. Learn to whistle.
11. Revise last week's newspaper.
12. Hold "How fast my computer boots" competitions.
13. Practice aiming the coffee cup into the dustbin.
14. Enhance your Literature skills. you can author "1001 innovative ways to waste your day" to help your colleagues.
15. Pick up the phone and dial non-existing nos.
16. Have work breaks in between tea.
17. Count maximum no of applications yourcomputer can open at a time.
18. For Win NT/95 users....Move things toRecycle bin and restore them..Then repeat this process. (very important).
19. Look at someone & try to imagine how (s)he might have looked when (s)he was 5 years old.
20. Read jokes and send jokes.
21. Make full use of the comfortable chair and table provided and take a nap

not my creation ...randomly found :) :) 

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Must Read, A Thriller Story!!! (read it at ur own risk ,after reading u may want to kill me:P)


Once there was a bus conductor, who was very rude to his passengers.

One day a beautiful young girl, of around 18 years,tried to board the bus, but he didn't stop the bus.

Unfortunately the beautiful young girl came under the bus and died on the spot. Angry passengers took the conductor to the police station, who in turn took him to the court.

The judge was not at all impressed with him and gave him capital punishment.

He was taken to the electrocution chamber. There was a single chair in the center of the room and a single banana peel at one corner of the room. The conductor was strapped to the chair and high voltage current was given to him. But to everyone's amazement, he survived. The judge decided to set him free, and he returned to his profession.

After a few months, this time, a good looking middle aged woman tried to board the bus but the conductor didn't stop the bus. Unfortunately, this time also, the good looking middle aged woman came under the bus and died on the spot.

Again angry passengers took him to the police station, who in turn took him to the court. The judge took one look at the conductor and gave him capital punishment. The Bus conductor was taken to the same electrocution chamber where there was a single chair in the center of the room and a single banana peel at one corner of the room. He was strapped to the chair and high voltage current was given to him. This time also, to everyone's amazement, he survived. The judge decided to set him free, and he returned to his profession.

A couple of months later, an elderly gentleman tried to board the bus.

This time the Bus conductor, remembering his earlier experiences, stopped the bus. Unfortunately the elderly gentleman slipped and died due to his
injuries. The conductor was taken to the police station and then to the court, to the same judge. Though he hadn't done anything wrong, but considering his past record the judge decided to set an example and gave him capital punishment.

The Bus conductor was again taken to the same electrocution chamber where there was a single chair in the center of the room and a single banana peel at one corner of the room. He was strapped to the chair and high voltage current was given to him.

This time he died instantly !!!!!!!!!!!

The question is why didn't he die on the first two occasions, but died instantly the third time??

Try to solve it yourselves. This is rather interesting and answer is perfectly logical. If necessary read the puzzle once again.

Still couldn't? Then see below.........

Think hard

C'mon .............

Tired....?

Wanna know the answer????

Ok........ here is the Answer............

During the first two times, the conductor was a Bad Conductor, therefore electricity didn't pass through him. But during the third time, he was a good conductor, so electricity passed through him freely and he died !!!! :D :P
 
Don't swear at me .,, I am also looking for the guy who sent me this... and for the Banana Peel, someone must have removed it by now, don't bother :P :D

BERMUDA TRIANGLE MYSTERY SOLVED...!!

Computer studies of ocean floors around the world, particularly the area known as The Bermuda Triangle, reveal evidence of massive methane explosions in the past. For years, believers in the paranormal, aliens, and other outlandish theories pointed to the the disappearance of ships and aircraft as an indicator of mysterious forces at work in the “Devil’s triangle.” Scientists have finally pointed the rest of us to a more plausible cause.


The presence of methane hydrates indicates enormous eruptions of methane bubbles that would swamp a ship, and projected high into the air- take out flying airplanes, as well.

Any ships caught within the methane mega-bubble immediately lose all buoyancy and sink to the bottom of the ocean. If the bubbles are big enough and possess a high enough density they can also knock aircraft out of the sky with little or no warning. Aircraft falling victim to these methane bubbles will lose their engines-perhaps igniting the methane surrounding them-and immediately lose their lift as well, ending their flights by diving into the ocean and swiftly plummeting.
Article found on facebook

KILLER ENGLISH :p

Heyazzzz ......I am really sorry ,but today  also its not my own original creation .......but what to do  some articles are so amazing that i have to  include it in mah blog......so today is some halka fulka humour day....so what can be more humourous than murder of english done by people .....here are some instances

MUST READ !!!
.
.Killing English
 1. Principal to student..." I saw u
yesterday rotating near girls hostel
pulling cigarette... ? "

2. Class teacher once said :" pick up
the paper and fall in the dustbin!!!"

3. once Hindi teacher said...."I'm going out of the world to America.."

4. "..DON'T TRY TO TALK IN FRONT OF
MY BACK.."

5. don't..laugh at the back
benches...otherwise teeth and all will
be fallen down..... 


6. It was very hot in the afternoon
when the teacher entered.. She tried
to switch the fan on, but there was
some problem. and then she said "
why is fan not oning" (ing form of on)


7. Teacher in a furious mood... write down ur name and father of ur name!!


8. "shhh... quiet... the principal is
revolving around college"


9. My manager started like this "Hi, I
am Madhu, Married with two kids"


10. "will u hang that calendar or else I'll HANG MYSELF"


11. LIBRARIAN SCOLDEd ," IF U WILL
TALK AGAIN , I WILL KNEEL DOWN
OUTSIDE"


12. Chemistry HOD comes and tells
us... "My aim is to study my son and marry my daughter"


13. Tomorrow call ur parents
especially mother and father


14. "why are you looking at the
monkeys outside when I am in the
class?!" 


15. Lab assistant said this when my
friend wrote wrong code.. "I
understand. You understand.
Computer how understand??


16. Seeing the principal passing by,
the teacher told the noisy class.. "Keep quiet, the principal has passed
away"


17. Once Teacher Told "If u Talk So
Loudly I Will Stand Uping U"


18. teacher to students:don't spit
outside, the understanding people will suffer


19. i have 3 daughters, all are girl



Wednesday, June 20, 2012

AMAZING FACTS ABOUT WARREN BUFFET: 3rd RICHEST MAN IN THE WORLD.

Heyazz readers ....today while surfing net came across these amazing facts about warren buffet and they are too amazing, so sharing with u all 

1) Warren bought his first share at age 11 and he now regrets that he started too late!

2) He bought a small farm at age 14 with savings from delivering newspapers.


3) He still lives in the same small 3 bedroom house in mid-town Omaha, that he bought after he got married 50 years ago. He says that he has everything he needs in that house. His house does not have a wall or a fence.

4) He drives his own car everywhere and does not have a driver or security people around him.

5) He never travels by private jet, although he owns the world's largest private jet company.

6) His company, Berkshire Hathaway, owns 63 companies. He writes only one letter each year to the CEOs of these companies, giving them goals for the year. He never holds meetings or calls them on a regular basis.

7) Warren Buffet has given his CEO's only two rules.

Rule number 1: Do not lose any of your share holder's money.

Rule number 2: Do not forget rule number 1.

8) He does not socialize with the high society crowd. His past time after he gets home is to make himself some pop corn and watch television.

9) Bill Gates, the world's richest man met him for the first time only 5 years ago. Bill Gates did not think he had anything in common with Warren Buffet. So he had scheduled his meeting only for half hour. But when Gates met him, the meeting lasted for ten hours and Bill Gates became a devotee of Warren Buffet.

10) Warren Buffet does not carry a cell phone, nor has a computer on his desk.

11) His advice to young people: Stay away from credit cards and invest in yourself.

12) He has donated $31 billion (85% of his fortune) to charity..

Friday, June 15, 2012

AFRAID OF LOSING U :(

You will never know what I feel for you
Perhaps ill never show it too

Because i am afraid to lose my best friend
And you'll never understand ,which way the road of our life has bend

You've always been that protective friend ,A girl can ever wish
And now it haunt's that due to my feelings our friendship will perish

You've always been by my side ,whenever I need
And now I don't wanna lose you because of my stupid deed

you've always been my worst weakness and my best strength
And now I don't wanna say what i feel for you
Because I am afraid to lose myself  by losing you :(



Monday, June 11, 2012

सुबह :)


वो नशीली नींद ,
वो चेहरे पर सुकून ,
वो  होठों पर मंद मुस्कान,
वो सप्नो में डूबी हुई आँखें,
वो खिड़की से चेहरे पर गिरती रेश्मी धुप,
वो माँ का सर पर हाथ फेरकर उठाना,
वो ताज़ी हवा से फूलो का महकना ,
वो मीठी अंगडाई,
वो सुबह की पहली चाय ,
वो ख़ामोशी ,
वो मदहोशी ,
वो कोयल की नखरीली आवाज़ ,
कुछ ऐसा ही होता है सुबह का अनोखा अंदाज़ :) :)

Thursday, June 7, 2012

She is a human too :/

Now almost evryone prefers a WORKING WOMEN,
so b4 marrying her...plz keep dis in mind:


Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a home maker from day 1, while you sleep ignorant to her nervousness in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this...dey think its her birthtym responsibility..

Please appreciate "HER"..:)

Thursday, May 24, 2012

LOL in the name of Petrol :P :D......Although its rates only makes us cry :(


 1.Drink and drive should not be a problem now.
After all how many will be able to afford alcohol and petrol on the same day? :p :(

2.Breaking News:
The little Sardar Kid in the Maruti Suzuki ad, "Papa petrol khatam hi nahi hunda" has just committed suicide
 
3.KBC to Start Again
The Winner Will Get 100 ltrs of Petrol :D
 
4.Petrol pump attendant : kitne ka daalu ?
 Me : 10 rs. Ka gaadi ke upar daal de AAG Lagani hai bhai.
 
 
5.Sony's show "Crime Patrol" is soon to change its
name to..
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.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
. .
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"Crime Diesel"
 
6.Petrol daa.. rate vekh ke..aankhiyaaan jo hanju rul de :( :( :@
 
7.Petrol@ 78 .Now a Tata Nano's fuel cost will be more than it's EMI per month.=D X_X
 
8.A New Poster Outside The Bank For the Year 2020
Petrol and CNG Loans Available Here
Take a petrol loan and Get a "Pulsar" bike worth Rs 7000 free!!

Pls Note:In the year 2020 petrol prices will be same as todays bike price,and bike prices will fall down to todays gear cycle prices.

9.We have the world's cheapest car & costliest petrol. Amazing India
 
 
10.Govt : We cant make new roads but we surely can keep people off from roads,
Petrol Price does that effectively :P

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Me and My boss



Me and My Boss

When I Take a long time to finish, I am slow,

When my boss takes a long time, he is thorough

When I don't do it, I am lazy,

When my boss does not do it, he is busy,

When I do something without being told, I am trying to be smart,

When my boss does the same, he takes the initiative,

When I please my boss, I am apple polishing,

When my boss pleases his boss, he is cooperating,

When I make a mistake, I' am an idiot.

When my boss makes a mistake, he's only human.

When I am out of the office, I am wondering around.

When my boss is out of the office, he's on business.

When I am on a day off sick, I am always sick.

When my boss is a day off sick, he must be very ill.

When I apply for leave, I must be going for an interview

When my boss applies for leave, it's because he's overworked

When I do good, my boss never remembers,

When I do wrong, he never forgets 
Is this human  :(

Friday, May 18, 2012

Sab Kuch tera tha

Woh mohabbat bhi teri thi, woh nafrat bhi teri thi.

Mujhe apnane aur thukrane ki ada bhi teri thi,

Mein apni wafa ka insaaf  kis se aur kya mangti

woh shehar bhi tera tha, Woh adalat bhi teri thi...!!

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

22nd may- No petrol day

Today morning  my facebook  Newsfeed  was filled with the news of - may 22nd -is "No petrol day" the matter written on it was something like this


"Malaysia Rs 18 per litre
In India it's Rs 70 per litre
Why this difference in Asia itself ? World Market CRUDE Oil is not the reason for this. It's the Gain for private owners? As we are the general public, or Common Man as R.K.Laxman wud hv said, we have to raise our voice, let's raise thru Emails, Facebook, BBM & messages!!.
Forward this to all Indians who care.
IT HAS BEEN CALCULATED THAT IF EVERYONE DID NOT PURCHASE A DROP OF PETROL FOR ONE DAY AND ALL AT THE SAME TIME, THE OIL COMPANIES WOULD CHOKE ON THEIR STOCKPILES.
AT THE SAME TIME IT WOULD HIT THE ENTIRE INDUSTRY WITH A NET LOSS OVER 4.6 BILLION DOLLARS WHICH AFFECTS THE BOTTOM LINES OF THE OIL COMPANIES.
THEREFORE "THURSDAY MAY 22nd " HAS BEEN FORMALLY DECLARED "STICK IT UP THEIR BEHIND " DAY AND THE PEOPLE OF THIS NATION SHOULD NOT BUY A SINGLE DROP OF PETROL THAT DAY.
THE ONLY WAY THIS CAN BE DONE IS IF YOU FORWARD THIS TO AS MANY PEOPLE AS YOU CAN AND AS QUICKLY AS YOU CAN TO GET THE WORD OUT.
THURSDAY , MAY 22nd
NO PETROL DAY
One day."



And when i searched in google about it ,i found there are several days ,like jan 22,sept 22 etc .....done before this  upcoming MAY 22.some ppl said ,we should leave every thing on god's hand only,because now a days  person who speaks for somebody else ,pays heavy price for it ,for example take anna hazare "his whole image was spolied after his effort to change something for good ,take arvind kejriwal ,before sometimes it was in news like he has to pay 9lakhs as per the notice of income tax dept as he went for study leave ,but y just after he supported the effort of anna hazare instantly income tax dept realizes tht he has to pay 9 lakhs fine? .But I say have they  still lost their hope?NO,they are still fighting . But we ppl of today firmly believe our old elders saying "If u wanna stay in water ,u have to make friendship with crocodile" Its like government can raise price of Anything ,overnight and people says" ab kar bhi sakte hain" .This "ab kar bhi kya sakte hain"attitude is the only thing which makes some ppl think ,tht public can't do anything -
wanna rise prices of oil -raise it - ab kar bhi kya sakte hai 
wanna rise prices of dal -raise it -ab kar bhi kya sakte hai
wanna rise prices of onion like daimonds - raise it- ab kar bhi kya sakte hai
wanna make people life hell - make it - ab kar bhi kya sakte hai
in recent times it was also in news ,when dal prices were touching the sky like 90 to 100 rs kg ,when asked why ? the stupid answer came ,because the production of dal this season is under average ,and very next  day a sting operation of news channel highlighted how much amount of dal in government godowns has been soiled due to heavy stockage from long time .....why didn't they sent that stock in market when then there was shortage ,which made them raise prices of it .....
those people are in the mindset that  public hai  thode din "chikhegi ,chillayegi ,fir chup hojayegi " 
But after all this also ,we were and still we will say "Ab kar bhi kya sakte hain ".........Guys remember gandhiji if he had stayed with this "ab kar bhi kya sakte hai " attitude then we and our upcoming generations would still be living as a slave of some countries ......now its high time to change this  "Ab kar bhi kya sakte hain " attitude to "Ab kuch karke dikhana hain" .

Monday, May 14, 2012

25 Insights on Becoming a Better Writer :) :)

 When George Plimpton asked Ernest Hemingway what the best training for an aspiring writer would be in a 1954 interview, Hem replied, "Let’s say that he should go out and hang himself because he finds that writing well is impossibly difficult. Then he should be cut down without mercy and forced by his own self to write as well as he can for the rest of his life. At least he will have the story of the hanging to commence with."
Today, writing well is more important than ever. Far from being the province of a select few as it was in Hemingway’s day, writing is a daily occupation for all of us -- in email, on blogs, and through social media. It is also a primary means for documenting, communicating, and refining our ideas. As essayist, programmer, and investor Paul Graham has written, "Writing doesn't just communicate ideas; it generates them. If you're bad at writing and don't like to do it, you'll miss out on most of the ideas writing would have generated."

So what can we do to improve our writing short of hanging ourselves? Below, find 25 snippets of insight from some exceptional authors. While they are all focused on the craft of writing, most of these tips pertain to pushing forward creative projects of any kind.

 Pd james : On just sitting down and doing it…
Don't just plan to write—write. It is only by writing, not dreaming about it, that we develop our own style.
Steven press field : On starting before you're ready…
[The] Resistance knows that the longer we noodle around "getting ready," the more time and opportunity we'll have to sabotage ourselves. Resistance loves it when we hesitate, when we over-prepare. The answer: plunge in.

Esther Freud : On finding your routine...
Find your best time of the day for writing and write. Don't let anything else interfere. Afterwards it won't matter to you that the kitchen is a mess.

Zadie smith: On unplugging...
Work on a computer that is disconnected from the internet.
Kurt vonnegut : On finding a subject...
Find a subject you care about and which you in your heart feel others should care about. It is this genuine caring, and not your games with language, which will be the most compelling and seductive element in your style. I am not urging you to write a novel, by the way -- although I would not be sorry if you wrote one, provided you genuinely cared about something. A petition to the mayor about a pothole in front of your house or a love letter to the girl next door will do.
Maryn Mckenna : On keeping your thoughts organized...
Find an organizational scheme for your notes and materials; keep up with it (if you are transcribing sound files or notebooks, don’t let yourself fall behind); and be faithful to it: Don’t obsess over an apparently better scheme that someone else has.  At some point during your work, someone will release what looks like a brilliant piece of software that will solve all your problems. Resist the urge to try it out, whatever it is, unless 1) it is endorsed by people whose working methods you already know to be like your own and 2) you know you can implement it quickly and easily without a lot of backfilling. Reworking organizational schemes is incredibly seductive and a massive timesuck.
Bill wasik : On the importance of having an outline...
Hone your outline and then cling to it as a lifeline. You can adjust it in mid-stream, but don’t try to just write your way into a better structure: think about the right structure and then write to it. Your outline will get you through those periods when you can’t possibly imagine ever finishing the damn thing — at those times, your outline will let you see it as a sequence of manageable 1,000 word sections.
Joshua wolfshenk: On getting through that first draft...
Get through a draft as quickly as possible. Hard to know the shape of the thing until you have a draft. Literally, when I wrote the last page of my first draft of "Lincoln's Melancholy" I thought, Oh, shit, now I get the shape of this. But I had wasted years, literally years, writing and re-writing the first third to first half. The old writer’s rule applies: Have the courage to write badly.
Sarah waters: On being disciplined...
Treat writing as a job. Be disciplined. Lots of writers get a bit OCD-ish about this. Graham Greene famously wrote 500 words a day. Jean Plaidy managed 5,000 before lunch, then spent the afternoon answering fan mail. My minimum is 1,000 words a day – which is sometimes easy to achieve, and is sometimes, frankly, like shitting a brick, but I will make myself stay at my desk until I've got there, because I know that by doing that I am inching the book forward. Those 1,000 words might well be rubbish – they often are. But then, it is always easier to return to rubbish words at a later date and make them better.
Jennifer egan: On being willing to write badly...
[Be] willing to write really badly. It won't hurt you to do that. I think there is this fear of writing badly, something primal about it, like: "This bad stuff is coming out of me…" Forget it! Let it float away and the good stuff follows. For me, the bad beginning is just something to build on. It's no big deal. You have to give yourself permission to do that because you can't expect to write regularly and always write well. That's when people get into the habit of waiting for the good moments, and that is where I think writer's block comes from. Like: It's not happening. Well, maybe good writing isn't happening, but let some bad writing happen... When I was writing "The Keep," my writing was so terrible. It was God-awful. My working title for that first draft was, A Short Bad Novel. I thought: "How can I disappoint?"
Al kennedy: On fear...
Be without fear. This is impossible, but let the small fears drive your rewriting and set aside the large ones until they behave – then use them, maybe even write them. Too much fear and all you'll get is silence.
Will self: On not looking back...
Don't look back until you've written an entire draft, just begin each day from the last sentence you wrote the preceeding day. This prevents those cringing feelings, and means that you have a substantial body of work before you get down to the real work which is all in... The edit.

Haruki mukami :On building up your ability to concentrate...
In private correspondence the great mystery writer Raymond Chandler once confessed that even if he didn’t write anything, he made sure he sat down at his desk every single day and concentrated. I understand the purpose behind his doing this. This is the way Chandler gave himself the physical stamina a professional writer needs, quietly strengthening his willpower. This sort of daily training was indispensable to him.
Geoff dyer :On the power of multiple projects...
Have more than one idea on the go at any one time. If it's a choice between writing a book and doing nothing I will always choose the latter. It's only if I have an idea for two books that I choose one rather than the other. I always have to feel that I'm bunking off from something.
August Burroughs :On who to hang out with…
Don’t hang around with people who are negative and who are not supportive of your writing. Make friends with writers so that you have a community. Hopefully, your community of writer friends will be good and they’ll give you good feedback and good criticism on your writing but really the best way to be a writer is to be a writer.
Neil gaiman : On feedback...
When people tell you something's wrong or doesn't work for them, they are almost always right. When they tell you exactly what they think is wrong and how to fix it, they are almost always wrong.Margaret atwood: On second readers...
You can never read your own book with the innocent anticipation that comes with that first delicious page of a new book, because you wrote the thing. You've been backstage. You've seen how the rabbits were smuggled into the hat. Therefore ask a reading friend or two to look at it before you give it to anyone in the publishing business. This friend should not be someone with whom you have a romantic relationship, unless you want to break up.
Richard ford : On others' fame and success...
Try to think of others' good luck as encouragement to yourself.
Helen dunmore: On when to stop...
Finish the day's writing when you still want to continue.
Hilary mantel: On getting stuck...
If you get stuck, get away from your desk. Take a walk, take a bath, go to sleep, make a pie, draw, listen to music, meditate, exercise; whatever you do, don't just stick there scowling at the problem. But don't make telephone calls or go to a party; if you do, other people's words will pour in where your lost words should be. Open a gap for them, create a space. Be patient.
Annie dillard: On things getting out of control...
A work in progress quickly becomes feral. It reverts to a wild state overnight... it is a lion growing in strength. You must visit it every day and reassert your mastery over it. If you skip a day, you are, quite rightly, afraid to open the door to its room. You enter its room with bravura, holding a chair at the thing and shouting, ‘Simba!’
Cory doctrow: On writing when the going gets tough...
Write even when the world is chaotic. You don’t need a cigarette, silence, music, a comfortable chair, or inner peace to write. You just need ten minutes and a writing implement.
Chinua achebe: On doing all that you can…
I believe myself that a good writer doesn’t really need to be told anything except to keep at it. Just think of the work you’ve set yourself to do, and do it as well as you can. Once you have really done all you can, then you can show it to people. But I find this is increasingly not the case with the younger people. They do a first draft and want somebody to finish it off for them with good advice. So I just maneuver myself out of this. I say, Keep at it. I grew up recognizing that there was nobody to give me any advice and that you do your best and if it’s not good enough, someday you will come to terms with that.
Joyce carol oates : On persevering...
I have forced myself to begin writing when I've been utterly exhausted, when I've felt my soul as thin as a playing card, when nothing has seemed worth enduring for another five minutes... and somehow the activity of writing changes everything. Or appears to do soAnne enright : On why none of this advice really matters...
The way to write a book is to actually write a book. A pen is useful, typing is also good. Keep putting words on the page.How About You?

What great writing tips have helped you change your ways?

Article credit :
Jocylen k. glei