Wednesday, December 19, 2012

I fear living in India

Yes this is what I feel now ,after hearing the incident of a girl being raped late sunday night in a bus with 6 perverts on her in capital of our country. I am actually shattered after hearing this incident ,when I heard I really had tears in my eyes not because that I am a girl and I have feelings or  something else but because I live in such country ,were such perverts who can't control them selves and behave worst than animals and still live freely and enjoy life.
Have we ever taught what gives them such confidence of doing such crime?
Why this types of incidents happen in greater number in our country?
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 This is totally because of law system of India. I was proud to be a citizen of India when I used to hear that only here a  girl  is given the  titles of lakshmi ,durga and saraswathi of house. But as we grow up we face the reality and actually the worst realities ever. This is not the first rape happened in the country -why public is getting outraged now?why we are protesting now?why we are pressuring the govt now? -why now?
If this would have done at the very first point no moron would have that courage to do such crime and live freely without being arrested. Its really a heart breaking incident coming forth,when such worst incidents can happen in capital of our country,people living in other states can know were they land.I can say this because i stay in chennai and nothing is different here and i can confidently say that it will not be different else were too in our country.Now  Why ? is the question arises here -it all because the judicial system which prevails from pastttttttt centuries ,
Its all because these khulaaa buffaloes knows that they can do any crime and no mosquito can touch them ,
Because they know till the time justice will come ,it will be their time to leave this world,so who cares ?
Even if some how justice manage to peek its head out of all struggle,worst to worst what will happen a minimum of 7 to 14 years of jail. so those perverts will just chill and carry on what ever they want to do.
Now the question arises if a person do a murder a direct punishment would be 14 years of jail or he/she will be hanged till death -while in rape case the minimum of punishment would be mere 7 years of  jail or if extended then 14years maximum---here I question how can a rape be a smaller crime than murder -you know what guys.,
"MURDER KILLS ONCE ,WHILE RAPE KILLS ITS VICTIM ITS WHOLE LIFE"
and a message for those perverts would be,be a man u moron ,coz real men dont rape have a bloddy self control over your hunger.I really wish that atleast this time our constitution wakes up ,takes strong steps and provide quick justice to the victim -and until they give justice they must take necessary actions to make that moron life hell in any way they can -like to,
Cease all his id proofs.
Such crimes should not be bailable
Ban his travel.
Show his bloddy face in media ,so people can know how devil's actually look like.
until they give justice aleast this steps to be taken so that he can't live freely and I request our constitution to divert all such cases in fast track court so the victim can get the justice as early as possible  because if left freely this psychos will do the same thing again an again-lets hope for the best -this is my part of spreading some thing ,now its your turn spread such messages so some  sleeping people will open eyes and create fear in such psychos minds.Last but not the least please pray for that girl and other such girls who are victim of  such crimes -please help such persons in any possible way you can - may god help her to regain back to her normal life as early as possible  :(

Monday, December 17, 2012

You said :)

Troy & Gabriella - high-school-musical-3 Fan Art
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You said you'll walk every path of our life,looking in my eye :)
You said you'll always be there for me, like my sky.

   Together our life has seen many sun's and shades,
   And you promised to be with me, whenever I feel pale. :)

  When you were mine ,there were no fears :)
  And I know you will never let me make my relation with tears :)

  Your love thought me to live being selfless :)
  And I never knew when you became my best strength and my worst weakness :)

 To share all my life,my heart has always wished for someone of my own :)
 And see fate has found me your shoulder were I can lay my head down :)

Saturday, December 1, 2012

New year eve look - :D :D

So guys ,as today its 1st of december and we are ready to welcome winters and celebrate christmas -so after christmas ufocurse we gotta celebrate new year with a rocking party ,so for such parties you gotta look really special as its the end of year and you have to make it memorable ,so start thinking about your new year look from now,as december is gonna pass very soon I have already asembeled one look ,so here I go ,I have selected

French Connection-Ladies Thunder Dress
 French Connection-Ladies Thunder Dress 

Elliza Donatein Clutch - ISUFCL1
Elliza Donatein Clutch - ISUFCL1 

Inc.5 - Ladies Footwear
 Inc.5 - Ladies Footwear 


ESPRIT Timewear - Ladies Watch - Slide Black
 ESPRIT Timewear - Ladies Watch - Slide Black 


AYESHA - Square Smokey Topaz Rhinestone Studs
AYESHA - Square Smokey Topaz Rhinestone Studs 


Infinity Bangle Collection 44407R
Infinity Bangle Collection 44407R 
Do have a look on my look ;) and tell me how it is 

This is my entry for the., 
INDIBLOGGER -THE PERFECT FESTIVE LOOK CONTEST 
to buy this look or to create your very own festive look log on to.,WWW.SHOPPERSSTOP.COM

Friday, November 30, 2012

Mehendi ceremony look :D :D

So guys as you know i have to attend certain weddings now a days and along with a wedding  there are so many other functions associated -so now i have to attend one Mehendi function -so for that i have selected Haute Curry Churidar-Kurta-Dupatta Set from -Taj The Poetry collection from shoppers stop site -believe me they have so wide range of apparels that u'll go mad what to choose and what to not ,so the churidar which i  have selected is typically an overlap style churidar (which is very in now a days) it has a cutwork hem done over it and the main part is its so sober and it gives you a diva look :) :) I especially have liking for overlap looks as it looks awesome on everyone :) :)
Haute Curry Churidar-Kurta-Dupatta Set
Haute Curry Churidar-Kurta-Dupatta Set

And here comes the best part of this dress -its back work -which gives the super chic gorgeous look to the out fit now that's some thing really different you see - it is this work which will make you stand apart from crowd and who knows it can even make you to be the center of attraction coz its so pretty :) :)

Now to go along with dress I have choose a very elegant  earings -which will give a contrast look according to this dress -:) :)

Carbon Diamond Earring -FHE21818
Carbon Diamond Earring -FHE21818
 so if you are wearing these earrings please don't wear anything in neck unless it matches the earrings,just have the earrings you will look really good believe me :D :D or if u so badly need to wear something in neck then go with this fine jewellery set -it really goes well :)


Pretty Women Pendant Set - 94203
Pretty Women Pendant Set - 94203



And a braclet for hand would be
Infinity Bangle 043950G
Infinity Bangle 043950G

And without a supercool watch ,no look is complete I think, so here we go with the watch :D :D


ESPRIT Timewear - Ladies Watch - Slide Black
ESPRIT Timewear - Ladies Watch - Slide Black

Wait we forgot the clutch :D :D So here we go :)
French Connection-Ladies Lunar Glimpse Studded Clutch
French Connection-Ladies Lunar Glimpse Studded Clutch
And last but not the least comes our footwear :D :D
LEMON - Womens Evening Sandals
LEMON - Womens Evening Sandals

So my mehendi looks gets complete :) :) I hope you guys like it :) :)


This is my entry for the.,
INDIBLOGGER -THE PERFECT FESTIVE LOOK CONTEST
to buy this look or to create your very own festive look log on to., WWW.SHOPPERSSTOP.COM



Tuesday, November 27, 2012

If women ruled the world :D :D

 Came across this while surfing facebook :P

If women ruled the world then
the budget would be,

- All year sales on fresh stocks,
- National holidays on kitty days,
- No import duty on diamonds,
- Designer bags available on ration card,
- 1 gift mandatory per day,
- Waking women before 11.50 am would be a punishble law.
- Calls to moms would be free gift from telephone authority of india,
- All scientists would be diverted to develop medicine to reduce all body fat in a minute,
- Cosmetic companies would sell their products on no loss no profit basis with regular supply of free samples,
- Around the world trip mandatory on every women's birthday.... :)=D

Friday, November 23, 2012

THE PERFECT FESTIVE LOOK CONTEST - RING CEREMONY LOOK

sorry guys ,got involved in too much work that had no time to write any post ,,, still don't have time to sit and write some poems -but saw this contest at indiblogger by shopper's stop and what better than this topic you can give a girl to write.So soon started with my pen and paper's (obviously it was borrowed as always :P) , As you all know that diwali fever has finally got down my head but hey wait still shaadi's season is on :P :P well gotta tell you all that diwali was so damn hectic as i had just one day holiday :( so on the day of diwali I was wearing a kaaftaan leggings combi (not very show shaa type but ya it was diwali and had to wear some thing blingy(my mom's mantra) but i like it sober as well as something which can give me a festive feel but i can't  handle too much of blinge :P so chose over a kaftan with very little sequence work as i was too tired to wear an anarkali or a heavy work churidar and roam around the city :P So diwali is gone --sob* sob* but gotta attend some shaadi's in upcoming days ---- so what can be my dream look this festive season ,well I just loved this things in shopper's stop site and I am surely gonna flaunt this look (scroll down)
well this look is for one ring ceremony I gotta attend so I am trying to keep my look simple at the same time it gives that function feel :D :D

Seven East Churidar-Kurta-Dupatta Set


Seven East Churidar-Kurta-Dupatta Set
Lucera Crystal Earring EF16193
Lucera Crystal Earring EF16193
    
ESPRIT Timewear - Ladies Watch - Play Glam White
ESPRIT Timewear - Ladies Watch - Play Glam White
Elliza Donatein Clutch - ISUFCL2
Elliza Donatein Clutch - ISUFCL2

Haute Curry - Ladies Footwear
Haute Curry - Ladies Footwear









    





































(well that's the model not me :P but the dress and the accessories are soon gonna be mine :D :D )

So here I have choose a really pretty churidar from SEVEN EAST which is of  high neck so i don't need to wear anything like necklace or a chain. To team up with this dress I found very elegant LUCREA CRYSTAL earrings  and combined the look with very sober ESPIRIT white colour watch (big dial watches are so in these days) along with it I have took a ELLIZA DONATEIN white clutch with a little silver touch (well that rhymes :P ) and last but not the least HAUTE CURRY FLATS omg they are so cute and you know what it can go with most of my dresses :D :D so the ring ceremony looks gets complete :D :D


This is my entry for the.,
INDIBLOGGER -THE PERFECT FESTIVE LOOK CONTEST
to buy this look or to create your very own festive look log on to., WWW.SHOPPERSSTOP.COM

 More shaadi looks coming up ---stay tuned :D :D

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Seasons of life

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Some dreams ,some fears ,some regrets and some tears.
Moving ahead in this sweet and bitter life ,
With a hint of spice and some salt,
There are days when you just want everything to halt.
Sometimes there are bright & warm sunny days,
And sometimes there are cold & gloomy winds to face.
To our surprise suddenly sometime there is a rain of love,
But when it ends all we are left doing is reprove.
And certainly again there comes the cold,
And your life starts to take another fold.
With teary eyes,loneliness and regrets,why we forget the simple told
That there is a big bright smile after every pain,
And after every Autumn there are cheerful lovely rains :) :)  

Saturday, October 27, 2012

This is how he should be ;)

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The one with that breath taking smile,
Yes, the one for whom I can walk any number of miles.

The one whose goodness will touch my soul,
The one with the personality which I can adore.:) 

The one for whom ill give away my last name,
Should be the one who knows that love is not a game.

Yes he should be the one with a golden heart,
Whose kindness will make him from crowd,apart.

I've always wished for someone who leads his life with some principle,
Yes the one with the above qualities can fit into my "perfect guy example".

Lastly he should be some one on whom I can proudly proud,
Yes he will be my dream guy on white horse ,without any doubt :) :)
                                                          
                                                         

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

The day you met :) :)


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To me you were something like a dream come true :)
You walked in my life silently and you stayed too :)
Your feeling was like wearing a warm hoodie ,
In cold,breathe taking december winds of my life.
I fell for you the moment, your goodness touched my soul.
And now i can proudly say that,
Yes you are the one,the only one I was longing for.
You made your place in my life,with out my permission 
And now I came to know why it is said,
that love need no reasons :)
I can sum up this by saying that 
I was a flowing river ,with no boundries 
And then the day when you said, -You do : )
I found my shore in you :) :)

 

Friday, September 28, 2012

A musing :)

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Moving the darkness like kohl ,from the pillows of snowy white mountains a sun raised its head and saw that on the hills of someones heart there is a season of  love.

On the stems of the memories there are innumerable flowers of past which has started giving out its mesmerising fragrance.

Some unsaid and unheard wish which is still partly in sleep has started rubbing its eyes and it sees that flowing like a river, life is new in its every wave.

Remembering that some one once said that on the lap of life there is never ending love and there is also a long wait for someone too.


And it waves off by the silent feeling that on barren land of someones heart soon there is gonna be a rain of love. :) :)  







Wednesday, September 26, 2012

SOME REGRETS.........


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We met ,we fell for each other and we fall apart too.You became my dream and that dream which I saw with open eyes. But now all we have is a miles of space in between us.Still there are some unknown threads which are tying me to you ,still I see the dreams of both you & me to be together. I don't know how should I tell you about those feelings which are still alive some where in my heart,but please don't get me wrong,for your sake I've tried and I've tried hard to completely let you free.But still there is something which binds you and me.May be my eyes can explain what my heart feels because I am unable to find words to explain it . I don't know was it your talks ,your smile or your first touch which made me fall for you or it all happened after you left -please don't ask me I have no idea about it. I know that you tried and tried your best but may be it was my insecurities which didn't let me speak my heart and I still regret that why I didn't said what I felt for you - Why I didn't said yes,even i feel the same for you.

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

VACUITY

Sad Animated Full Moon (image courtesy -google)
The shine of moon is slowly fading
The twinkle of stars is vanishing too
Everything seems to be so dark and empty
And my love is asking your ego for some pity
My life has turned its face on me
And I am still lost somewhere in midst of your sea
The silence which I am hearing is loudest of all
I still remember you swore to handle me when I fall
How should I kill memories of every second I spend without you?
Or how should these few lines explain my unbearable spasm to you?
For your single answer I have longed for my whole life
But I wonder how my tears wouldn't even give you a strike
This night is darkest and longest of all I've ever seen
Still I hope you to be here, as you promised,you would have been

Friday, September 14, 2012

MEMORIES :) :)

People say childhoods are always special and yes they always are ,most of us have awesome childhood filled with our adorable sweet innocence and naughtiness. I have to say though I had born in a middle class family ,my parents have brought me up like a princess ,although i never got what i wanted but they always gave me what i needed and I never remember the day when I had long for something I needed. though my mom have been a strict mom but  I have always been a mama's girl (Still I am :P) , I still don't have a courage to go beyond her words (Not because of fear but due to respect , I respect her to the core ) ,I know how how much she has went through to bring me up. So where were we ? ya childhood and you know what guys, I just love children ,their smile can make my whole day ,even it may be a random kid ,I can start playing with them ,i just love kids - so was just asking my mom about my childhood yesterday - and she started with "please don't remind me of that" and I was like ?? ( I gave her an exclamatory look ) and said areeeeee c'mon  tell me na maa and she told me you were the naughtiest child I've ever seen in my whole life ,you showed me stars in day time and I was like LOL. I  told "maa ab bachee toh aise hi hote hai" (maa kids are like that only )and finally I felt I was normal as other humans ;) pheeewww what a relief to hear that :D :D and suddenly she reminded me of diwali and saree wala incident and I was laughing out loud remembering that ,well at that time I was around 10 years old and I remembered that incident quite well , It was diwali time, No! actually one day before diwali and as usually i hadn't went to school ,I was damn lazy to go to school. Once in a week(during working days -sundays not included)  I always had a bahana (excuse) to how to avoid school, indeed now I can write the 2 volumes book on those bahana's I made during that time. I never liked to go to school although my mom was strict but on this part she was not that much interested. Whether I go to school or not but she made sure that my studies are not getting suffered. My mom always made me study on my holidays for at least 5 hours per day (now thats what we call as torture but anything is legit to get a holiday -so mom's conditions accepted )and my grades were quite good always ;) and so my parents were happy and never forced me to go school when I didn't wanted. But ya only one holiday was allowed in a week after that none of my tantrums worked :P. My teachers always use to get furious when I didn't went to school , but as i was good in studies they just used to scold me for this and leave me ,they even didn't took that seriously :P But  I always use to tell my friends (very proudly) dekha miss mujhe kitna pyaar karti hai ,jab mein nai aati to miss mujhe kitna daant ti  hai  kyunki woh mujhe bauaht pasand karti hai and tereko toh kabhi puchti bhi nai :P :D(miss scolds me because she loves me and misses me alot but she don't even ask about you :P :P) One of my friend rupal always used to get angry red all because my such dialogues :P :P So it was one day before diwali ,my mom had went to temple and as usually I was standing in front of  TV and was dancing like a retard ( I still can't dance :P ) ,I even remember the song it was oh oh jane jaana dundhe tujhe diwana :P

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I had a hard core crush over salman during my childhood I always love watching him and I love his songs too although now it has passed on to ranbir <3 :P :P So the main door was locked as I always use to run out of home and then finding me in a building of 108 houses  was a big deal  for my mom after that,so she always locked the main door and go but people can contact me from the kitchen window ,So i was busy in my dancing business and there is a knock at my window ,I went to my kitchen it was our building sweeper aunty - She smiled at me but i didn't smiled -I stared at her :O(actually as per my mom during those days i never used to smile except for posing in front of camera otherwise I always used to stare people :P :P now please don't ask me why - I have no idea :P ) I asked her yenna venno? (what do you want ?) She told you remember your mom promised to give me a saaree yesterday evening as a diwali gift ? I told yes ,so ? please tell your mom to give me now ,as I will not come tommorow and i don't have anything to wear .... I got really emotional by her words ,I was an emotional fool during my childhood (actually still I am ) As mom was not at home ,so i decided to give her the saaree -I told her to wait there and went to the wardrobe and I took out a really good saare -, I thought she will like it and gave her :P she said  thankyou and went of happily - so- I happy ,she happy ,which indeed made me think will make my mom happy too and i was damn excited to say mom about this incident and thought that mom would be glad because i did such good work :P :P  I was eagerly waiting for her ,i was dancing all over my home like i have went nutz -so mom came - as soon as she opened the door i ran to her screaming Mommmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and got wrapped around her (My excitement levels were always at their peak ,when ever i did something different ) My mom was surprised by seeing me so excited she asked babuu (now that's my pet name - no body should laugh on it :P ) what have you done today haan? ( she asked mischeviously) I narrated the whole incident proudly :P to her .After hearing the whole thing she was shocked  and ran to the wardrobe opened it and asked which saaree did you gave to her ? ? (shockingly ) i told mama that blue wali saari which you wored on chachu's (uncle) wedding :P :P and she told "u mad girl (in gujju ufcourse ) that was my fav saaree and I had wored that only twice" and suddenly my maa turned into maa durga with in a fraction of seconds the only diffrence was she had belen in her hand instead of trishul and  I had too run out of the home before she could catch me :P :P i went to gate running then turned and gave her a look of -"catch me if you can"  and  again started running :P :P

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 yesterday was laughing out loud remembering this but that day the same incident was like my last day on this earth :P :P :D

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

#SOAK NO MORE - 3RD AND FINAL PART

 READ PART 2 HERE

For a minute gunjan was feeling to die but that would eventually affect her family so being strong she decided not to take any wrong step,she will marry arth only for the sake of happiness of her parents. Now gunjan's dad is in his room ,he recives a call from arth's dad ,
Mr arora (arth's dad ) - hello mr singh(gunjan's dad) ,its just to let you know that we need 10 lakhs on the urgent basis
Mr singh - (shockeddddd to hear their last minute demand ),he says, but Mr arora how can i arrange such big amount now
Mr arora - that is your problem Mr singh -I don't know about that ,but if you fail to arrange it ,just conclude that this marriage is not gonna happen
Mr singh-  please don't say like that ,ill arrange 10 lakhs any how ,you please be on time or else my daughter's life would be ruined.
Mr arora - ya ya ,you don't worry about that,you just arrange the money and disconnected the call
Now Mrs and Mr singh is in the state of shock any how he arranged 10lakhs but were really tensed
So arth's baarat enters now - the usual naagin dance is going on (most common in Indian marriages)
Mrs and Mr singh welcoming them
Mr arora ask to Mr singh is the thing i asked,ready ?
Mr singh -yes ,please come in ,ill hand it over to you ,as soon as Mr singh hand overs the bag of money ,Cops enters and caught them red handed (bygod police......that too on time :D  ) Mr arora don't know how to react and in state of big shock ,Mr arora to Mr singh you have not done this right ,you'll pay for this and so on ,Constables takes away Mr arora out of the room ,now there is a deep silence inside...........
Inspector to Mr singh - See giving and taking dowry both are criminal offence you are also supposed to get arrested ,but shrey intervenes ,pleads and says ,Sir he has done all this for the sake of his daughter,please leave him and he convinced the inspector by saying that now he has learnt from it and he will not repeat it please leave him please understand ,so inspector told shrey anyhow even if i am not taking him with me ,case will be filed against him and until court proccedings are over he is not supposed to go out of town and took,Mr Arora and the whole jerk family with him to jail all of them were screaming like animals like,dekhlenge(we will see you)  ,kisi ko nai chodenge (we will not leave any of you),blah blah blah and went to their sasural (jail :P).
Now Mr singh looking at shrey ,who the hell did this ,who called the cops, however i know who did it, but i want to hear from that person's mouth , i ask who did thissssss (in top of his voice angrily ! ) suddenly a voice heard , MAINE (Me) everybody was shocked to hear that voice
HAAN MAINE BULAYA (yes i called) and Mr singh was like tumne par kyun(you ? but why ) - kyun gunjan kyun (why gunjan why )
Shrey was like- mishti was it you ? really ?
Gunjan yes shrey it was me ,papa i heard your phone call with arth's dad on a parallel line- and papa still you asking me why ?
Mr singh - but what was the need ,i was giving them the money na ,then why you did such thing ?
Gunjan- yes you were giving them the money ,but were you ready to give them such amounts of money lifelong ? what would you do when you will not have any money and they would have burnt me or murdered me by any other means all because you didn't gave them money ,would at that point also your so called izzat (prestige) would have been more important to you than your daughter
Mr singh - with heads down realizes his mistake ,He said beta my choice eventually turned wrong for you ,I don't know how i choosed something like this for you , I really don't know how to apologize to you - It was my mistake ,I am sorry but still asks beta now who will marry you after all this ?
Gunjan - papa you still...(before she could speak some thing more) A voice said - ME
before gunjan or anyone can find out who was he , somebody was on his knees in front of gunjan - Gunjan was shocked to see shrey in front of her like this - he held gunjan's hand and says
"Today i don't have any flowers or ring to support me to convey my feelings to you but i wanna say that the day when you told me about your marriage ,i was not able to sleep whole night or  was never the same after that news, it was like some one is taking away my life in front of my eyes and i am not able to do anything to gain it back but today when you called me here and hugged me ,i came to realize that you are the one whom i am going to love till my last breathe and see who knewed that i will be able to say all such things  to you but yes god has given me a second chance to get you and i won't miss that at any cost - Mishti today i wanna say that I love you more than anything in this world ,I love you with all have -would you give me the privilege to grow old with you? ,Misthi -I love youuuuuuuuu <3 <3"

Gunjan looked at her parents and they smiled (which meant yes ),gunjan hugged shrey and cried like a baby in his arms and said Yes shrey you are first and last man i am going to love for my whole life -I love you too and started crying again (Awwww)

So moral learnt here
From gunjan's dad is- #soak no more  in the name of your so called pride ,it may affect your family badly

From gunjan is - #soak no more under the emotional attyachar of someone even if they are your parents,some decisions are need to be taken by yourself for betterment of your and their life too

From Arth and his family is - #soak no more in greediness of dowry or else you will be behind the bars one day

From shrey is - #soak no more by hiding your feelings,sometimes your love needs to be expressed in words

DISCLAIMER -  SOAK NO MORE (PART  1 ,2 AND 3) IS PURELY WORK OF FICTION
THIS IS MY ENTRY FOR INDIBLOGGER AND SURFEXCEL'S MATIC #SOAK NO MORE CONTEST


Monday, September 3, 2012

SOAK NO MORE - PART 2

READ PART 1 HERE 

she was standing near the window and got a call from shrey
SHREY- hey mishti,so how was it??(excitingly)
GUNJAN - told him the whole incident
SHREY- oh my god !such jerk your parents have choosen for you (surprisingly)
GUNJAN- Shut up!you have no right to say like that -they are my parents
SHREY -ok i am sorry but mishti ,he is not the right guy for you
GUNJAN -i don't know what to do :(
SHREY- go and tell your parents idiot ,they'll understand for sure
GUNJAN-i don't know how to say that they have choosen a wrong man for me ...they'll get hurt shrey
SHREY- no dear ,they'll understand your situation - just go and tell
GUNJAN- ok ,ill try
SHREY- do you want me to talk to your parents ?
GUNJAN- no! that would not be right
SHREY- ok so what's next ,what you gonna do?
GUNJAN - now i am not in the mind to deal with all these ,ill think and ill call you, for now byeee
SHREY -ok byeee ,take care :)
Around one week paased ,still Gunjan was not able to say anything to her parents ,So Shrey decided to deal with it. He went to Gunjan's home and told everything to her parents,but Gunjan's parents were so much influenced by arth and his family that they didn't bothered about what shrey said and ignored him and told him to stay out of their personal matters. Gunjan enters now ,shocked to see shrey there but smiled ,suddenly her dad says,gunjan !if you didn't liked our choice ,you could have told us but what was the need to tell such outsiders about your personal matters (now this is such a emotional drama you see, however her dad didn't liked shrey from first time he met him ,don't know why?  ),shrey was like to say something to gunjan's dad but gunjan hold's his hand ,takes him outside and told him,shrey now you please go from here ,I can't bear your insult nor i can go beyond my dad's word ,please go from here shrey ,I am sorry for whatever happend shrey was like hey please don't say sorry i am always there for you ,you'll find me always at your service when ever you need :) :) and went.

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Now gunjan's dad says - gunjan beta have faith in our choice ,we will never choose anything wrong for you,shrey is a rich business man ,he won't understand our culture and can never understand what a middle class family goes through if their daughter's rishta is broken . See arth is not a bad person ,he is just straight forward (oh yeah !If saying a girl to pay the bill on her date and taking her exam over a cup of coffee is being straight forward ,then yeah he was ) and now her dad throws a biggest dialogue of millenium beta ab hamari izzat tumhare haat mein hain(which means, dear now our so called pride which is greater than your happiness is in your hands) as we have said yes to arth's family and have informed our relatives about it too. Now  overloaded by such emotional drama she said yes for arth ( i mean reallyyy - just imagine guys "yes" for marrying arth ) and as per her dad's plead which was indirectly an order, she didn't spoke with shrey not even on phone :( shrey called her everyday but she didn't attend any of his call ,he even tried to meet her ,but she always resisted and never met) Now almost 3 months passed ,she had met arth quite a couple of times in this period but arth was still the same and she came to know that arth's family was also exactly like arth, his mom was two - faced and his dad was the most stingy person of this universe (Now we came to know that Arth have all such things in his genes itself )
arth's mom said that gunjan should not leave her job after marraige ,and throws a dailogue "you see after all we are not that backward people ,who keep their daughter in law inside four walls of the house (haan haan -mann mein toh laddu futt rahe honge ke paise chhapne wali machine jo ghar aarahi hai) Now its something 3 days left for  gunjan's marriage and after almost 3 months she was going to call shrey - she was really nervous and she knew only shrey can handle her - but rather of calling she texted him inviting him for her marriage - shrey was shocked to see her message ,he called her ,but she didn't picked - she just texted again that it is him whom she needs the most ,please do come. shrey was shattered (but had no idea why its hurting him too much )
Now its the marriage day ,gunjan's mom dad are welcoming the guests and now enters shrey - gunjan's dad was shocked to see him but he didn't wanted to make any drama so silently welcomed him too.shrey now calls gunjan hey i am here ,gunjan told him to come to her room ,shrey entered gunjan's room - gunjan was looking stunning in her red and green shaadi ka joda (marriage gown )she looked like an ancient Indian princess - from up to toe -still her eyes were missing that spark which any bride would have naturally - shrey said , mishtii you look like an angel - gunjan was so full of emotional weight that she could not handle it as soon as shrey said a word she hugged him tightlyy and started crying. shrey hey mishtiiii why are you crying ,if you want i can still stop your marriage ,should i?
Gunjan- no please ,i don't want to go against my parents ,it is just that you are the person i needed today the most ,so called you ,please promise me that whatever happens you will be there beside me- shrey (was really confused ) said mishti you don't need tell that - I am always there for you and left the room

READ PART 3 HERE
THIS IS MY ENTRY FOR INDIBLOGGER AND SURFEXCEL'S MATIC #SOAK NO MORE CONTEST

SOAK NO MORE - PART 1





GUNJAN:
 A sweet,simple,beautiful down to earth girl belonging to an orthodox family.
Yeah her mom and dad were quite old fashioned but believed that education is must for any girl so made gunjan study as much she wanted.She was an M.B.A and now well earning too.She was someone who can make any guy fall on his knees for her 

SHREYANSH :                                          
Also known as “shrey”, A business tycoon. He was tall, dark, handsome and damn sweet person. Guess what? He was our gunjan’s best friend from college times.  :D :D

Both were like made for each other and everyone was like they look so cute together, but as in every love story there are twists and turns our gunjan’s and shrey story was no different.They always laughed out loud when somebody compared them, they were like “we are friends not couple”, both of them never thought from that angle but destiny has its own ways and you have to walk on it :) 

(image courtesy -google)

So here comes a rishta(marriage proposal ) for gunjan.Enters Arth angle , he was also an M.B.A and had quite good job too ,it seemed to be a perfect rishta for gunjan to her parents and her dad immediately said yes for arth with out asking gunjan ( now that’s something very wired – I mean now a days who says yes to a proposal without asking their children but as I said earlier –she belonged to an orthodox family n we can’t help it )And when gunjan’s mom told her about the marriage proposal and showed arth’s photo( he was quite an average looking guy) , she was in the state shock and confused.
Then her dad asked her is there someone else she likes? 
Gunjan-no dad its not like that but
Her dad –then what’s the problem? 
Gunjan –nothing dad.
And as she could never go above her parents ,so she told yes too.
With lots of questions wandering  in her mind, she went in her mom’s room and said the confusion what she is going through – her mom said –dear its very normal what you are going through, every girl goes through this  ,remember I never saw your dad before getting married to him .she smiled but still was not satisfied  by her mom’s explanation ….she went to her room and called shrey
SHREY- hey mishti
(yeah shrey called gunjan as mishti from the first day they met in college )
GUNJAN-shrey(in deep voice and then a long pause) ………..
SHREY – What’s wrong mishti, speak something .
GUNJAN – shrey my parents have fixed my rishta and even said yes on my behalf and I don’t know how to react 
SHREY- …………………( silence- he was quite shocked)
GUNJAN- hello …..shrey ?? are you there ??
SHREY – Yeah tell me ………so are you ready for it ?
GUNJAN- I don’t even know him ,I don’t know what to say
SHREY- mishti relax ! go and meet him ,ask your parents that you want to meet him
GUNJAN- ya ….you are right , I have to meet arth .
SHREY- ohhhh ……his name is arth haan (naughtily)
GUNJAN- shut up , I am in a do or die situation here and you …… (angrily)
SHREY – calm down mishti ,everything will be fine.
GUNJAN- speaking to you always make me fine....thank you :)
SHREY – come on mishti you are my bestiee , don’t be so formal and now go to sleep ,
GUNJAN- yeah ,byeee
SHREY- don’t worry just sleep now without thinking about anything ,byeee ,good night
After talking to shrey, gunjan was so relieved that she slept without any fear or questions in her mind
But that night was really heavy for shrey ,he didn’t sleep that night at all (and he had no idea ,why ?)
Next day morning gunjan said to her parents that she wants to meet arth ,although they believed in not letting children meet before ring ceremony( a fultoo orthodox thinking) but for the sake of gunjan’s plead they agreed. They fixed up their meeting in a coffee shop near gunjan’s office at 4pm,she was really nervous but shrey met her in her office and built her confidence and now it was almost four so gunjan went to the coffee shop.She was heavily tired and after waiting for arth in coffee shop it was almost 4:30
 ( imagine the guy is late on his first date with his would be fiancĂ© …huh) So gunjan ordered a coffee for her and now it was almost 5 but Arth was still missing and finally a guy with a boquet of roses came to gunjan (yeah he was none other than arth) she recognized him as she had seen his photo.
After formal hi and hello (but guess what he didn't even apologized for coming late) arth saw gunjan’s coffee – and asked her “you had coffee without waiting for me “
Gunjan was like – huuuunnnnnnnhhhhhh (surprised)  she asked why wasn’t I supposed to do that
Arth – no its not like that but my mom always waits for my dad
Gunjan (in a shocked state) so what you are expecting me to do for that
Arth – Nothing! but I would have been glad if you had waited for me
Gunjan- yeah I waited for you till 4:30 but you din’t came ,so I just ordered one for my self
Arth – hey hey that’s ok , I don’t want any explanation from you after all its just a cup of coffee (now I really want to hit this guy ….I mean like its you who is going on questioning and when she is giving answers ,you say you don’t need any explanationnnnnnnnnn, you need a psychiatrist dude )
Gunjan was like Oh my god please save me
 Arth ordered a coffee for him too and didn’t even asked gunjan that would she like to have anything else (manner less idiot)
He had his coffee  and guess what he just paid his bill and told gunjan "you see I believe in equality" ( hiding his stinginess in the name of equality )
Gunjan- was like ohkkkkkkkk no issues  and both of them left
Gunjan was really upset with arth’s first impression on her (I know any girl would be after meeting such a loser )
She went home and didn’t speak with anyone and entered in her room 

THIS IS MY ENTRY FOR INDIBLOGGER AND SURFEXCEL'S  MATIC #SOAK NO MORE CONTEST

Thursday, August 30, 2012

ASK YOURSELF FIRST :) :)

Actually have already submitted my one entry for this contest  But as now there is something damn exciting  in last moment entry so,just writing this post down.So as you people know from my  first entry that I don't believe in proving whether love marriage is better or arranged marriage is better ,because I believe in destiny ,You really don't know what is written in it ,whether its love marriage or arranged marriage or NO marriage :P. The most funny thing i came to hear about marriages now a days is -Love marriage is something like going to the well happily with 32watts smile and jumping inside  -Splashhhhhh and Arranged marriage is when your family comes into the picture ,carries you to the well and excitingly drop you in it  -Splashhhhh again :P so the choice is yours whether you wanna do suicide or want your family to murder you :P :P  or its something like you are walking on the road ,suddenly from no where a  cobra comes and bites you ,yeah you guessed it right now that's love marriage and arranged marriage is like going into a jungle ,finding a cobra and dancing in front of him saying come bite me bite me :P :P But on a serious note What i really feel is marriage in  itself is a beautiful lifelong commitment , which binds two persons  for whole life, Its a start to a new life ,so may it be a love or arranged really don't matter what actually matters is marriage. Marriage can be the biggest decision of any one's life ,because your whole future life will get depended upon your this decision. So if you are gonna take this decision just take it by yourself and firmly by yourself only. Don't get influenced by others decisions. Its never like love marriage is better or arranged marriage is better , both have their own advantages and disadvantages. So you got to be very firm and in right frame of mind before taking any decision .
That's it if its your decision and you feel its right then nothing can go wrong-and just give your 100% in it and hope for the best- - the only essential choice is picking the right  partner  if you get a right partner then it really doesn't matter whether you get it by arranged marriage or love marriage :) :)

So now its like people who do arrange marriage are In such frame of mind that they say, that this decision is my life changing decision and whatever my parents says would be final because they have more knowledge than me  ,they can never go wrong  or can never spoil my life.But is this really practical ?
See in arranged marriage parents may be really happy and you feel that you can't hurt their feelings by saying no to their choice ,but if you think, sometimes it is possible what your parents choose for you may not be right ,they may also go wrong sometimes ,just think twice and don't blindly go after it ,because now your one NO can hurt your parents but if you say yes and if your marriage didn't workout then it would leave you and your parents both with a lifelong regret because parents want their children to be happy and if their decision turn out to be wrong  , they will be the one most hurt  ,so just take time to think and keep marriage as only your sole decision.
so before taking any decision regarding your partner ,just ask your self these questions and if you are satisfied by the answers then go for the person ,so here we go
Is he/she the right choice for you ?
As arranged marriage is full of adjustments ask yourself ,
Will he/she be able to adjust with you life long? or will ill be able to adjust with him/her ?
Will he/she be able to understand you ?
Try to spend some time with them and go for the right person as your future depends upon this choice.
Arranged marriage is something love after marriage ,so ask yourself will ill be ever able to fall in love with him/her.
That's it if after you get an self satisfying answers to  all these questions,get ready for a big fat wedding, I mean most of the arranged marriages are really lavish :P ;)
                                    
                                      (Image courtesy -google )

So now coming to love marriage
I know Love is the most beautiful feeling of anyone's life
In love its just you and your partner and the whole world don't exist and will never exist too :) for you only your partner is the best person of this world .For him/her you are ready to fight with the whole world.
when someone is in love nothing seems wrong or right ,in love everything becomes legit. He or she is the most important person of your life and you feel he/she is the person with whom you can share your whole life ,so now whats the problem in love marriage ,as arranged marriage even love marriage have its own pros and cons ,so how to find out ,so again will go for question and answer round .....
so ask your self ,will ill be able to love him/her the same after 10 or 15 years
of our marriage ?
will you still continue to love him/her even if you find someone much
 better than him/her ?
will you be able to love him/ her even after knowing their worst ?
and again if satisfied by answers ,just go for it ,get ready to elope with him/her :P as most of the love marriages won't be accepted by parents or family but once you have done with it just like jab we met's- Geet (kareena kapoor ) say Shaadi ke baad bas unke (family) pairo mein gir jaana hai - and you know they are sooner or later gonna accept you and your love :P :P

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whether be love or arranged - there are gonna be adjustments and sacrifices ,so be damn sure of your decision -so later on there will be no regrets but before getting into any decision just ask yourself a very important question Am I ready for this life long commitment ? :)


P.S -This is my entry for indiblogger love ya arrange marriage contest
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Friday, August 24, 2012

FEELING OF FIRST LOVE :) :)

First love is always an unforgettable part of your life - It will always be inseparable form heart -The memories it leaves is something from which you can never move on  even when have moved on from your relationship . Its that fragrance which clings to you till your life time . Its something which you can't get it off even if you want too. I mean all the first things in life are really special ,like first job ,first rains etc but first love is some thing which is unexplainable :) It would be the most beautiful part of anybody's life :)


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 The first feeling of being with someone is eternal
 That first feeling of security ,when walking down the streets in winter night with him
 That feeling when his one good morning text can make your whole day
 That moment when the front seat of his car is just reserved for you
 That feeling when he suddenly holds your hand while crossing road,and you just want that moment to pause there
 That feeling when he is not afraid to stand by you through your worse
 That feeling when he assures you that he will be with you till your life
 That cute feeling when sometimes he carries your shopping bags getting over his ego
 That feeling when he gets possessive when some tries to flirt with you
 That feeling of wearing his jacket
 That feeling of being with a person who don't care about how you look
 That moment when he sings just for you 
 That feeling when he says don't worry, No matter what I am always there for you 
 That feeling of getting drenched in rain with him
 That feeling when you know nothing can go wrong as long as he is with you 
 That feeling of changing for him and that cute moment when he tries to change for you
 And That most pure feeling of having somebody ,whom nobody can share.
 He is just and just for you :) :)

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

An encounter with early morning rains :)

It was around early -early morning 6 ,and I was totally lost in my sweet dreams of  R.K   A.K.A  Ranbir kapoor :P  my well known crush :D :D - Well I am not a morning person at all. I can hardly and very badly wake up at 8am. After 18 years of hard core efforts by my mom ,now she has also realized that its just a waste of time to expect me to wake up early in the morning but to my knowledge Isn't 8 am early too and I can say that because I know some retards who wake up at 11 and 12 so shouldn't my mom  be proud of me that her always obedient and sincere daughter (yeah that's me :D )atleast tries to wake up at eight although that 8 mostly becomes 8:30 to quarter to nine but atleast I try :P Anyways we cannot explain or argue with mom. I hope she realizes my worth someday :P :D
So lets come back to the topic , it was around 6 am , I encountered the most beautiful moment of my life ,as you already know i was lost in the dreams of my RK and in my dream I was just about to fall and RK was just about to catch me but in meanwhile Some  rain droplets were escaping from my window and were directly landing on my face and It woke me up and the dream was over Sob* Sob* but that day I woke up without alarm clock but with the sound of rain and smell of mud was all over my home - believe me it was an divine experience-It was the most beautiful morning ever and I finally realized why mom says wake up early in the morning ,who knows it may give you some lifetime memories to cherish and yes it was certainly magical. I grabbed my hoodie ,it was quite cold and any how I love to wear hoodies ,so no matter what I just need a reason to wear them as in chennai's heat you get very less moments where you can wear your hoodies and sweaters ,so whenever I get that chance I grab it :D and just sat beside my window , and streched my arms outside ,raindrops were dancing in my palms ,it was just a site to cherish - I love rains but it was the first time when i am experiencing morning rains ,it was really a feel good experience just made a cup of hot chocolate and again sat beside the window , this was the time for just myself - only self thoughts -remembering all good goody moments with friends and family and smiling like an idiot.Thinking if life can just pause here.


(picture courtesy Arpit shah photography  )

This is the season of love as some people say and it happened to be the same with me ,even i falled in love ,No no don't get me wrong ,Yes i falled in love but with nature :D  Just thinking all the sweet thoughts with those naughty little rain droplets still falling on my face and other dancing on the earth - this experience was amusing , and its proved even nature can give you sweetest lifelong memories. It  was almost seven and  I was still beside my window and was writing this whole experience in my dairy to my surprise I was so lucky that there was sunrise along with rain -Warm sunrays entering directly in my home make my home more bright and my mood too :D :D I don't know it may sound funny and some people may even go whats so new in this but for me it was the most awesome experience and so penned down each and every moment to preserve and cherish it for a life time.

Friday, August 10, 2012

I think its gonna be a never ending wait

Waiting for some one is not easy and its gonna be more worst  when you know that your wait can take your lifetime. Yet you choose to wait ,why ? because for you that person is more worthy than your lifetime wait.
You know that those beautiful memories which you lived together is enough for your whole life to keep your doors open for that person . Although its really painful because ,you can't even tell that person that your wait for him is really taking your life. You can't even explain him the spasm ,you go through when he is not around. And you do all this for his dreams ,because you know its selfish to make him sacrifice his dreams and even harder when you know what his dreams mean to him. You don't want become a hurdle between him and his achievements.
But you also know that this is taking him away from you and you know at a certain point, its gonna affect your relationship badly but still your love for that person makes you stay lip sealed . Even your faith in him starts slowly fading but those memories ,those promises will not let you tear apart that soon .
But at some point of time you will also think , if that person loves you so much,
Why don't he understand the paroxysm which you are going through?
Why can't he envisage that his dreams are slowly breaking you from inside ?
Why don't he realize, what worst you are enduring without him ?
Why he is too stubborn to look beyond his dreams ?
Why don't he visualize ,what's being there on your side ?
For you ,he his your everything but,
Why you are still unaware about what's your place in his life ?
You know if you say ,he will leave everything and comeback to you ,but ,
Why can't he realize all these without saying ?
Why you are supposed to say and explain him everything ?
Why can't he understand your silence ?
And some times it makes you think ,
Will he'll ever be able to understand you beyond your words ?

Today its again raining outside...
All i can wish now is, you to be by my side. 

This season used to be so beautiful with you ...

All now it reminds me is only of the pain ,which i went through.

You promised me that you'll make every path of my life worthwhile ...

But I never knew ,along with you ,you will even take away my smile. 

I know that you are never unfaithful to me ...

But in between your other commitments you lost "us" from you & me.

Still I can feel your essence in this aroma of rain ....

But it makes me sometimes think that, waiting for you is really nothing but vain?




Monday, August 6, 2012

Thanks for coming in my life :) :)

So, I really dont know what to write  about friendship ,because i came to know what friendship means from some extraordinary species. Before meeting them my life use to revolve around me and my family. Till my high school i only had one best  friend , an she was so helpful in every aspect of my life that i never felt ill be needing some one else  because i believe in a saying have one good friend rather than 1000 fake friends ,so thats it -she was all ,she knewed all my secrets ,i used to share everything with her -thats it life was really cool - i never felt i must be having a gang of friends  or something -all though there were other class mates too but never got close with anyone -I am kinda reserved person , i need my own time ,my own space to get familiar ,i can't get that easily involved ,i love to make friends but need my own time to get mix with them. and i even hate back bitching people too ,so really choosy about making friends So that was all but really friends are the most important part of life learnt when "she" my best friend got married and settled out of town ,now that was the worst part.although no one can fill her space in my life, but it was the time to create space for some other people too - It was the time to get the college admissions- -haha- official place to make friends and hangout -was so damn excited-new place and new friends  -but in my life nothing goes as planned - was just about to get my admission forms  ,there comes a job offer -and it was so good that i was convinced that i have to do  this job. So college admission form became trash and went into a dust bin -And here  in job atmosphere everybody so involved in their own work that they  have no time even to speak to some one else so no frnzz here too but now have some really good colleagues here -the only best part here in this job was facebook - yeah when i joined here i never knew facebook existed also ,but slowly and steadily got addicted to it,all though people say fb frnzz are not real ones and wont be able to help you in your problems, they are fake and etc stuff - but for me the whole scenario was different - i really got good friends here -its almost been two years and they are still the best part of my life - they are always there for me when i need - to solve my problems , to make me smile at my worst days ,talking with them can make my day ,they have really became best of my frnzzz , i used to be so upto me but they thot me some really wonderful lessons of my life ,they accepted me the way i am -  today really wanna dedicate this poem to all of my friends who on otherside have became a part of my life .....i know this is not that good but can't find more words to write down -
 You people came in my life without any reasons
And I know ,you all are gonna be with me forever in all the seasons 

No matter how much i feel low or bad 
You are always there to turn my mood happy form sad    

I know with my stupid talks sometimes i may bore you to the core 
Still I know You will always be there by my side and that's what i adore 

you can always make my day more bright 
And  I never know when you all became such inseparable part of my life :)


From unknown to friends ,from friends to best friends ,from best friends to family were our evolution trends ,
I don't know were life will take us ,but i am sure even if we met again after a long break ,we know we will always be the best of friends :) :)