Thursday, June 7, 2012

She is a human too :/

Now almost evryone prefers a WORKING WOMEN,
so b4 marrying her...plz keep dis in mind:

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a home maker from day 1, while you sleep ignorant to her nervousness in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this...dey think its her birthtym responsibility..

Please appreciate "HER"..:)


Shashiprakash Saini said...

very true and great post

you inspired me to write this poem

बीवी लाए हो दासी नहीं

vinisha said...

thank u sir,glad to know that it inspired you to and just read your post its really awesume :)

LeoPaw said...

You taught me a great lesson today. Thank you.

vinisha said...

@leo ,really glad to know that :)thanx for the visit :)

Vikram Karve said...

Hi Vinisha,
Very nicely said.
Yes, today's young guys want a working wife, but they expect her to perform the same role as their full-time housewife mother did.
By the way, even some "working wives" want their Mothers-in-law to toil away, do all the housework and look after the grandchildren as well!
Everyone wants the best of both worlds.
There has to be a balance.
Keep Blogging

vinisha said...

@ya sir u r write every coin has two sides,balance has to maintained ,thanz for ur visit :)