11 Hints for life :)

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile and ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

small and easy but useful :)

Try to answer phone by left ear.

Dont take medicines with cold water.

No heavy meals after 6pm.

Drink more water in morning and less in night.

Best sleeping time is from 10pm to 6pm.

Don't lay down immediatly after taking food or medicines.

When battery is low,to the last bar,Do not answer the phone,as the radiation is 1000 times more than normal.

Ego kills....

Just in one line it can be understood

If you are were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make ,who would you call and what would you say?and why are you waiting?- stephene levine

life is seriously short ..don't waste it on keeping grudges ...love and forgive ur loved ones.
Ego can give u regrets till the end of your life ,so kill the Ego b4 it kills you :):):)

Life thrives on relationships

On the road ,it is not the question of whose mistake,but the question of whose life.
If you want to be alive you have to make the adjustments . Blaming makes no sense on the road.
As it is with road , so it is with our relationships. It is not the question of whose mistake,but the question of whose life.When your relationship gets disturb ,it disturbs your happiness. Without happiness what is life?
so even with relationships blaming makes no sense.The quality of a painting is the painter's responsibility. The quality of statue is the sculptor's responsibility, similarly the quality of your relationships is your responsibility and yours alone. In the road of life, in dealing with traffic called relationships ,it is not the question of whose mistake, but the question of whose life? Instead of expecting the world to change towards you ,change your approach towards the world . life thrives on relationships. Get your relationships right and you will get your life right.-Voice of love

Nicholas sparks - best quotes

Here is some of my favourite quotes from the novels of Nicholas sparks .......

@ If you like her ,if she makes you happy and if you feel like you know her then ,don’t let her go; 
   The message in a bottle.



@ True love is rare and its the only thing that gives life real meaning ;
     The message in a bottle.




@ I know that some how ,every step i took since the moment i could walk was a step towards finding you; 
 The message in a bottle.



@ If they were meant to be together ,they would find the way to do it;
    The  message in a bottle.




@ Beacause they didn't see each other very often their relationship had more ups and downs ,
  than either of them had experienced before ,since everything felt right when they were together
  and every thing felt wrong when they weren't;
  The  message in a bottle.




@ A person can get used to everything ,if given time;
    The notebook.



@ You are the answer to every prayer i have offered ,you are a song, a dream,a whisper ,
and i don't know how, i could have lived with out you for, as long as i have;
  The notebook.



@ You are my bestfriend as well as my lover ,i don't know which side of you i enjoy the most .
i treasure each side just as i have treasured our life together;
  The notebook



@ Just when you think it cant get any worse it can ,and juzz when you think it wouldn't get better it will;
    At first sight .




@ Love is like a wind ,you can't see it but you can feel it
   A walk to remember.

WHAT I HAVE LEARNED THE HARD WAY- Part 2

I'VE LEARNED :*That its hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

*That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others,sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

*That sometimes when I'm angry ,I have right to be angry,but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

*That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

*That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time .

*That no matter how good a friend is they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

*That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

*That your life can be changed in a matter of seconds by the people you don't even know . 

*That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up .

*That  we don't have to change friends,if we understand that friends change.

Dadi ma ke nuskhe #6,7,8,9,10

#6 For skin that is wrinkled or skin having sun spots, apply aloevera gel  on the affected part. This could take several months of use before you get the results,but it will definitely heal your skin.

#7 Have a milk mixed with turmeric daily ,to boost the immunity this winter. It proves to be a great healer ,if taken after a long day work ,it relaxes ur mind and body as well.

#8 If you are fond of dairy products, include buttermilk in your daily diet. Yoghurt cools the stomach and aids in the digestion of food.

#9 If using sunsreen beware if u r having a oily skin, It must be remembered that the higher the SPF the oilier is the product, so in cases of oily skin they can worsen the skin by forming acne eruptions.

#10 start your morning by doing simple pranayam ,it  gives a fresh start as well helps u to stay active all day. 

Being Gujju :D

Hey people being a gujju  I am gonna tell u all some of our secrets.
But there is a condition ,that is you  can laugh with us ,but no matter what, u are not supposed to laugh on us :D

So how to find a typical Gujju admist all....

$ If you consider spongebob as Dhokla "yeah you are a Gujju " :P
 
$ We pack according to 5 nights, 6days, hoiliday for a one day picnic :D

$ We take the constitution seriously,that's why everyone is either our BHAI or BEN ;)

$ If you don't watch 'Taarak mehta ka ooltah chasma' ,you aren't a gujju my friend  :/

$ The ultimate gift a gujjju can give is a cover with Rs 500 + 1 :)

$ If you don't go for navratri, you don't exist :O

$ We can talk about share markets ,anytime,anywhere :O

$ If its veg, edible and free......we eat it  :D

$ We eat home made theplas in business class flights ;)

$ The bongs(bengali's) and marus (marwari's ) may say "miss calls"  was their creation, But miss call on skype is totally Gujju :)

$ Everyone is always invited to a Gujju home for a lunch and fed like you have come from the groom's side :P

$ If a Gujju starts "coffee with karan" He would name it "chass with chagan " ;)

$ 15 or 50 no matter what age you are ,your parents will yet refer you as Babo or Baby :O

$ Boomer is not a chewing gum, Its a chigum :P

$ If you don't like jalebi-fafda ,then you are not a Gujju :)

$ If you are a Gujju ,then you must be having atleast 30 Contacts in cell phone ending with "Bhai" ;)

$ Its not cheap for us ,Its chip :D

There is lot more but aur type nai hota mujhse ,its a time to have jalebi-fafda break , for today its more than enough will keep updating more about us ,we just rock :D :) :) :)

my all time favourite shayari

उनको अपने हाल का हिसाब क्या देते ,
सवाल ही सारे गलत थे ,तो जवाब क्या देते |
वो तो मेरे कहे तीन लफ्जों की हिफाज़त तक ना कर सके,
फिर उनके हाथो में पूरी ज़िन्दगी की किताब क्या देते |

बेटी - A Bliss

सजा नहीं सपना होती है बेटी,

गैरो के बिच अपना होती हे बेटी |

रंगों से सजाती हे घरो को,

आँगन की कल्पना होती हे बेटी |

वेदना नहीं वरदान  होती हे बेटी,

आस्था और अरमान होती हे बेटी |

वजूद उसका कभी मिट सकता नहीं,

भार नहीं जीवन का सार होती हे बेटी |

जीवन की उलझी रहो के बीच,

एक सहज संवेदना होती हे बेटी |

हक़ होता हे पर हक़ की बात कभी करती नहीं ,

हकीकत और हसरतों का इन्द्रधनुष होती हे बेटी |

आँखों में रखकर पलकों पर सजाती हे जीवन ,

सच कहो तो कभी सीता तो कभी राधा होती हे बेटी | 

Because of you :)

Because of you .....
my world is now whole.

Because of you .....

love lives in my soul.
Because of you .....

I have smile in my eyes :)

Because of you .....
I am no longer afraid of good byes.

You are my pillar
my stone of strenght.......
with me through all the seasons ,

and great times of lenght.....
My love for you is pure ....
bondless through space and time
It grows stronger everyday
with the feeling that you will always be mine :)
At the altar .....
I will joyusly say I do.....
for I have it now ,
And its all because of you.

- not my creation ,but its so beautiful so sharin it  :)

my favourite shayari

तेरी यादों का काजल मेरी आँखों में कुछ इस कदर फैला है ,
के हर आंसू आज भी अपनी कहानी इसके नाम कर जाता है  

मन करता है - for someone special in everyone's life :)

मन भर के तुमपे भीग्ने का मन करता है 

हाथों में हाथ लेके तुम संग चलने का मन करता है 

और बस अब तुम्हारे ही स्पर्श से मेहेकने का मन करता है 

तुम्हारे ही रंग में अब तो  रंगने का मन करता है 

और फिर तुम में ही मिल जाने का मन करता है 

सिर्फ तुम्हे और तुम्हे ही पाने का मन करता है 

आगे क्या बोलू में बस इतना समझलो  

अब  बस तुम्हारी  वजह से ही मुझे जीने का मन करता है