Saturday, December 27, 2014

Be true to yourself

I totally agree that telling the truth is the most important thing in any relationship.
People should be truthful with other people from beginning in relationship and try to keep it as long as you want your relations to last for long time.
Everybody has already lied to someone. After that, most of the time people have felt guilty or bad if they expressed their own opinion.
Everybody should tell the truth all the time to feel more comfortable. When you tell the truth, it's easier to support your own idea or opinions because you don't have to invent a history.
Throughout history man has always thought it necessary to deceit on what is reality.
But history has proven time and time again that the truth is always best.
Many think it necessary to deceive, but doing so only leads to an exacerbated situation and temporary satisfaction.It may be helpful when something is by mistake, and you tell the truth on time. Maybe you can put a head together, and come up with some measures to fix it out. Therefore, the mistake will not be worse. Truthfulness is the greatest and most important of all human virtues

It would be the biggest lie of my life to say that I've never lied because at some point in our life we all have lied for something to someone. Mine was the time when first time in my life I had faked my marks :P although after growing up it was no big deal but during my childhood this guilt of lying actually killed me as I knew my mother had brought me up with lots of hardships. So it was the first time when I was in class 6th and my school was changed and due to the whole new environment and people around me, I actually had not concentrated on my studies and failed in the first term, now if had taken my reports to my mom she would have been really upset and due to the fear of upsetting her , I forged her sign over my reports and submitted to the class teacher but this guilt of faking her signature killed me.Till one month I was not able to face my mother and other people.
But one day I decided to confess this to my mother, no matter what happens any how I gathered the courage and told her everything. She got angry ufcourse and didn't say anything but that night she came near me kissed my forehead and said never lie to me in future no matter how hard the truth is never try to hide it with a lie because the truth will not hurt me that much how much your one lie can and my biggest fear is i'll never be able to trust you again .
You will have to lie thousands of time to hide one truth.
So my dear never lie and that was when after one month I had slept without guilt. How comforting the truth is, Right ?
Just watch this lovely video and understand it your self.

Truth is everything guys,just be true to yourself and you'll never be able to lie to anyone.
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Thursday, December 18, 2014

“Travel is the ultimate education,”

There is absolutely no substitute for travel and having those experiences firsthand.

Everyone loves to go on vacations; sometimes with our friends, sometimes with colleagues and sometimes with our own family.

The vacations we take our children on are different in a very special way - Kids see vacations very differently from adults! Their expectations, their curiosity, and the way they see things creates a unique experience on every vacation.

How should we ensure that kids have good time during their vacations. 
Why this question becomes so important here is because only if they have good time then we can enjoy our holiday too.

So here are some tips which would definitely help to let the kids enjoy themself and make their holidays memorable.

let them snap their experiences by their own selves 
Giving toddlers their own (robust, child-friendly) camera encourages them to observe their surroundings and focus on what interests them. You might be surprised at the results from their knee-high view. Amongst pictures of feet and wheels, my three-year-old has shot flowers, animals, helicopters, boats, rocks and rabbit poo.
Apart from taking photographs, there are lots of ways to help your children preserve memories of your trip. You could buy a postcard for each destination and help them to note a single memory on the back, alongside the date or their age. You could also get them started on collections of things that can be found in most places, such as badges, paperweights, model cars and boats or toy animals.

Get your kids drawing and listing things they’ve seen and interesting foods they’ve tried. Who knows, this might also encourage them to try different foods. 
Collecting postcards from places you visit and asking them to write themselves a message on the back means they can reach adulthood with a library of memories all their own.
Local toys are often worth seeking out, and make great gifts to take home. Apart from the novelty value, kids tend to like playing with the same things that local children have, and it can help with making friends.
If you plan on walking or cycling, remember that young children won't want to focus on getting from A to B, but on following their interests, so allow time for exploring.
Plan your route around the capacity of your youngest child and your ability to carry them. Try to choose a route where the scenery will change frequently. 
Good choices for walks or rides include following a river or canal towpath; there are no hills to negotiate, and there's the possible bonus of water to play in and birds to feed. It's also a good idea to combine walks or rides with an activity such as swimming or taking a short train ride.
Most toddlers love the novelty of travelling by train, bus and boat, so ditch the hire car and use public transport where possible.
If you’re heading out on a long journey have a collection of toys to be handed out once an hour. Handheld puzzles, tiny colouring books, stickers, wordsearches etc . 

I really hope my blogpost helps the other people out there to make their holidays with their kids memorable.
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Wednesday, December 10, 2014


By this time you people would have come to know that how much I love shopping :D :D

So Birthday is just  an another occasion when I get a chance to shop with my mom's money :D :D

As yesterday was so engaged in doing link up of Aadhar card with the bank account and lpg account. All that long queues and rude people over the counter etc stuff .But some how accomplished that task also successfully….phewww.
So  yesterday I was not at all able to celebrate my birthday properly :(

Now what better can be rather than shopping to make myself happy :D :D So I decided to go on shopping all by myself today.  :)
And when it comes to shop , I just don't need any company in fact I prefer shopping alone coz the problem with me is , I think alot before buying any stuff.
I try that stuff once and then before buying I try that already tried thing again , I don't  know why but I have a very complexed shopping pattern. So the person who is accompanying me while shopping will either  go mad at me or  just run away. So now you guys know why I shop alone :P :P
One more thing to add is that guilty feeling which I  get after spending money on stuffs  is also an another aspect , but can't help it ya shopping to karna padta hi hai.
As from my earlier post you people would have also come to know how much budget is important , so I set my budget at 2k.
So what I bought  today…  :D :D check down the images :P






Sunday, December 7, 2014


Shopping………………………………………  I mean like who doesn’t love shopping especially in girl’s case  :P
You know what nothing can uplift my mood rather than shopping but now the problem is that I can get upset over certain things (silly things )at mid night or such odd timings when I can’t go n shop , you know na, now at midnight who would keep the shop open and wait that vinisha’s mood is going to get upset let us keep the shop open? :P funny but true  but what should I do about my moods :P

So here comes to my rescue -------online shopping :D :D Its like some body has thought regarding moody people like me  and made this thing :D :D  Its  heaven Phewww…..
Now as usual it was almost midnight 3’Am and I was upset over a silly fight with my best friend  :( :(

So shopping was necessary :D Now the question arises where should I shop :P
Recently one of my colleague had bought one outfit from JABONG.COM and was very happy with the fit and service.So I thought lets give it a try.
Now the question is that what should I buy??
Ufcourse this is the biggest problem when you shop due to mood swings :P :P

Now my budget was 500rs because  if don’t keep the budget then I would end up shopping until my whole pocket money of the month gets over. So budget is necessary and I would thank my thinking that I had kept the budget because JABONG.COM had so many offers which were hard to resist and I would had ended up shopping above my limits :D
So I love bags to the core  be it a clutch , tote or sling, I just love them all. 
So it was decided that I would buy a sling bag as my current sling bag was quite old.
I was so amazed with the site, It was so easy and user friendly that it takes just seconds to find exactly what you want under your budget. 
I Just typed the price from 0 to 500 and there are so many product I found under that price.
so I just ordered the bag shown below

The estimated delivery date was after 15 days but that was ok ,I din’t mind but to my surprise it was delivered just after 5 days and I was really happy and jumping the packing was really good and the product  was intact and just the same what I had ordered .

With I really had a awesome experience and  I would definitely recommend for  people who are looking for good online shopping sites :)

Wednesday, December 3, 2014


On the road ,it is not the question of whose mistake,but the question of whose life.
If you want to be alive you have to make the adjustments .

 Blaming makes no sense on the road

So its just not one the person who is driving has to take care but  the one who is walking also has to share the equal part of responsibility as its a team work and everybody should take their own part in sharing this responsibility.

Why It is always the driver who gets blame for the accidents but I have seen so many incidents in my life where the persons walking on the road were on the wrong track and the one who is driving was only trying to prevent the accident. 
Think logically guys the driver will also need some time to stop the car but it is the typical mentality I've observed that its mostly the driver's msitake .

Now a days the worst habit I see in many people is that they walk with the headphones.I mean like why ??? 
 Ofcourse once you wear the headphone on the road even the person trying to give you signal through his/her car or bike horn you wont be able to hear.

Poorly maintained vehicles, rash driving, queer laws and scant respect for traffic rules also trigger accidents.

Traffic rules are way being taken for granted. Yeah I know our generation believes in saying that "rules are meant to break" but any thing is not more than a life, Right?. While driving on the road its just not your life but also the life of those  people who are walking or driving in your way.
How could we become so careless when the there is a question of so many lives.

Some of the solutions we should take way too seriously are ,

WEAR YOUR SEAT BELTS - If you don't wear , loss is yours and your family,atleast think about them.

DON'T ANSWER CALLS WHILE DRIVING - This is the worst habit  anybody can practise,please guys grow up. Your busy schedule don't have right to put anybody's or even your own life in danger- Got it ?
DON'T DRINK BEFORE  DRIVING - I mean like how many times everyone have to tell ? Are we nursery babies who are to spoonfeed for each and every thing.
OBEY ROAD SIGNS  - obeying is something not meant for you but at least if you follow others can walk and drive safely ,so please do it :) 
MAINTAIN YOUR VEHICLE - Please spend some of your hard earned money in servicing your car or bike - I mean your stinginess can cost you your life ,so please service your vehicle regularly.
Not following the above has always land some one or other in trouble
So don't blame but take the responsibility and be responsible.

So here ,
The Nissan Motor Co., Ltd., conducts the Nissan Safety Driving Forum (NSDF) in India as part of its safety driving promotion activities.
Under its Blue Citizenship CSR umbrella, NSDF by Nissan works to build awareness of safe driving in India. NSDF encourages drivers and passengers to wear seatbelts, and participants learn through interactive activities the importance of wearing seatbelts.Nissan seeks to support reducing fatalities and injuries caused by traffic accidents, and NSDF represents the company's commitment in contributing to young, vibrant and mobile India. 


Vinisha shah :)